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		<title>Carnival of Positive Thinking</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2009 15:14:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Thank you all for your good wishes, I am feeling a little stronger but still quite weak with this chest infection. I so missed speaking to you all on Friday, I love the warmth in your voices and the passion that we all support each other through as only widows can&#8230;.well didn&#8217;t want to not post the articles which people have sent me re positive thinking.
For if it touches one person that it is worth getting out of bed for  
Anna presents Success is Yours to Define posted at The Engaging Brand
Kaushik Chokshi presents Positive Thinking posted at Beyond [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><em><strong><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1814" src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2009/10/goals-300x225.jpg" alt="goals" width="158" height="122" />Thank you</strong></em> all for your good wishes, I am feeling a little stronger but still quite weak with this chest infection. I so missed speaking to you all on Friday, I love the warmth in your voices and the passion that we all support each other through as only widows can&#8230;.well didn&#8217;t want to not post the articles which people have sent me re positive thinking.</p>
<p>For if it touches one person that it is worth getting out of bed for <img src='http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p><strong>Anna</strong> presents <a href="http://theengagingbrand.typepad.com/the_engaging_brand_/2009/10/definingsuccess.html">Success is Yours to Define</a> posted at <a href="http://www.theengagingbrand.com">The Engaging Brand</a></p>
<p><strong>Kaushik Chokshi</strong> presents <a href="http://www.beyond-karma.com/beyond/positive-thinking/">Positive Thinking</a> posted at <a href="http://www.beyond-karma.com">Beyond Karma</a>, saying, &#8220;Does positive thinking really help?&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Andrii Kovalchuk</strong> presents <a href="http://www.educopark.com/Lessons/View/Destiny-and-Acceptance">Destiny and Acceptance</a> posted at <a href="http://www.educopark.com/">EducoPark &#8211; Important Lessons of Your Life</a>, saying, &#8220;I share with you my experience of how important it is to accept something that to you&#8230;&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Mike</strong> presents <a href="http://www.theuplifter.com/?p=71">Unemployment – Every End is a New Beginning</a> posted at <a href="http://www.TheUplifter.com">TheUplifter.com</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Kathleen Gaga</strong> presents <a href="http://www.dailyawareness.com/2009/10/a-tribute-to-my-father-a-gentle-kind-and-loving-man.html">A tribute to my father &#8211; a gentle, kind and loving man</a> posted at <a href="http://www.dailyawareness.com/">Daily Awareness</a>, saying, &#8220;There is a deep sense of freedom knowing there IS so much more than beyond what is visible to the naked eye. It is in this freedom we find the greatest sense of purpose and connectedness.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Lana Kravtsova</strong> presents <a href="http://dreamfollowers.com/do-not-mind-what-happens">I Don?t Mind What Happens</a> posted at <a href="http://dreamfollowers.com">Dream Followers</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Jake</strong> presents <a href="http://www.yourbestweekend.com/bad-things-dont-happen/">Bad Things Don?t Happen</a> posted at <a href="http://www.yourbestweekend.com">Your Best Weekend</a>, saying, &#8220;Thanks for your consideration! Hope you&#8217;re doing well!&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Kristen Howe</strong> presents <a href="http://www.lawofattractionkey.com/216/set-your-week-up-for-success/">Set your week up for success?</a> posted at <a href="http://www.lawofattractionkey.com">Law of Attraction Key</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Donald Latumahina</strong> presents <a href="http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2009/10/12/effective-journal-writing/">How to Write in a Journal Effectively</a> posted at <a href="http://www.lifeoptimizer.org">Life Optimizer</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Jerry L Saunders</strong> presents <a href="http://www.cuttingedgewisdom.com/2009/02/15/if-your-life-sucks-this-may-be-why/">If Your Life Sucks &#8211; This May Be Why</a> posted at <a href="http://www.cuttingedgewisdom.com">Cutting Edge Wisdom</a>, saying, &#8220;How the power of gratitude can impact your life&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Vincent</strong> presents <a href="http://www.healthmoneysuccess.com/1564/overly-optimistic/">Are You Turning Into The World’s Biggest Liar By Being Overly Optimistic</a> posted at <a href="http://www.healthmoneysuccess.com">Hit Your Goals</a>.</p>
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<p>That concludes this edition.  Submit your blog article to the next edition of <strong>positive thinking</strong> using our <a title="Submit an entry to “positive thinking”" href="http://blogcarnival.com/bc/submit_631.html" target="_blank">carnival submission form</a>. Past posts and future hosts can be found on our<a title="Blog Carnival index for “positive thinking”" href="http://blogcarnival.com/bc/cprof_631.html" target="_blank"><br />
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		<title>A Good &#8216;Forget&#8217; Rule For Grief</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 21 Apr 2009 11:37:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As widows and widowers we often want to forget, it is often the replaying of the tragedy that causes our pain and if only we could forget the bad and remember the good. However here are my taking on the idea of forget or should I say Four Get!

Get a notebook and journal your journey through grief so you can track your progress.
Get a diary and plan a social life no matter how small &#8211; you deserve to be happy.
Get a few moments to think of a way of keeping their legacy alive as a way of honoring them but [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As <strong>widows and widowers</strong> we often want to forget, it is often the replaying of the tragedy that causes our pain and if only we could forget the bad and remember the good. However here are my taking on the idea of forget or should I say Four Get!</p>
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<li>Get a notebook and journal your journey through grief so you can track your progress.</li>
<li>Get a diary and plan a social life no matter how small &#8211; you deserve to be happy.</li>
<li>Get a few moments to think of a way of keeping their legacy alive as a way of honoring them but also as a way of doing something positive for the living ,following an untimely death.</li>
<li>Get a piece of paper and write down 3 lifetime goals. Then plan positive steps of achieving them. Each of us need a reason to live.</li>
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<p>So Four Gets to help you to Forget <img src='http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> <img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-1348" src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2009/03/balloon_feat-70x70.jpg" alt="balloon_feat" width="114" height="83" /></p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 05 Apr 2009 19:28:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Every Sunday I post a set of articles that people send me to help us with our positive thinking in the week ahead. To overcome grief we need to work hard on our thinking. we need to work hard to rethink our goals and how we will find happiness&#8230;hope these articles help
Anna presents The Effect of the Fear of Loss posted at The Engaging Brand
Aparna presents Secrets of success posted at Beauty and Personality Grooming, saying, &#8220;These are a few rules that most successful people follow. It may not be a complete list in itself, but nevertheless some of the [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Every Sunday I post a set of articles that people send me to help us with our positive thinking in the week ahead. To overcome grief we need to work hard on our thinking. we need to work hard to rethink our goals and how we will find happiness&#8230;hope these articles help</p>
<p><strong>Anna</strong> presents <a href="http://theengagingbrand.typepad.com/the_engaging_brand_/2009/03/the-effect-of-the-fear-of-loss-the-lost-hour-story.html">The Effect of the Fear of Loss</a> posted at <a href="http://www.theengagingbrand.com">The Engaging Brand</a></p>
<p><strong>Aparna</strong> presents <a href="http://myblogonbeauty.blogspot.com/2006/08/secrets-of-success.html">Secrets of success</a> posted at <a href="http://myblogonbeauty.blogspot.com/">Beauty and Personality Grooming</a>, saying, &#8220;These are a few rules that most successful people follow. It may not be a complete list in itself, but nevertheless some of the rules mentioned below are invaluable and if followed, bound to bring success in our life, business and in almost all walks of life&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>cody butler</strong> presents <a href="http://www.dream-life-coaching.com/self-improvement-ideas.html">15 Self Improvement Ideas That Will Change Your Life Today</a> posted at <a href="http://www.dream-life-coaching.com">Dream Life Coaching Blog.  Ask your questions.</a>, saying, &#8220;!5 tips to help you improve your life today!&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Michael Miles</strong> presents <a href="http://effortlessabundance.com/blog/2009/03/27/blank-post-with-code/">Enjoying every situation</a> posted at <a href="http://effortlessabundance.com">Effortless Wealth and Abundance</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Radim</strong> presents <a href="http://livingnewage.com/personal-development/does-law-of-attraction-always-work/">Does Law Of Attraction Always Work?</a> posted at <a href="http://livingnewage.com">LivingNewAge.com</a>, saying, &#8220;The article mentions concerns that people sometimes have about the law of attraction and questions they ask when if they don&#8217;t believe that the law of attraction always works.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Shannon</strong> presents <a href="http://www.thedailybalance.com/2009/03/26/how-does-blogging-affect-your-health/">&#8216;Thankful&#8217; Thursday &#8211; How does blogging affect your health?</a> posted at <a href="http://www.thedailybalance.com">The Daily Balance</a>, saying, &#8220;How does blogging affect your health? Learn about the positive affecr blogging has on your mind and overall well-bieng&#8230;&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Gal Josefsberg</strong> presents <a href="http://www.questingsoul.com/2009/03/02/the-comfort-of-routine/">The Comfort of Routine</a> posted at <a href="http://www.questingsoul.com">Questing Soul</a>, saying, &#8220;This really helped me cope with my loss and I hope that it helps others as well.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>axel</strong> presents <a href="http://www.axelg.com/dalai-lama.html">Dalai Lama</a> posted at <a href="http://axelg.com">axel g</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>00FF00</strong> presents <a href="http://www.ooffoo.com/listing/The-World-Needs-Your-Passion.aspx">The World Needs Your Passion</a> posted at <a href="http://www.ooffoo.com">ooffoo</a>, saying, &#8220;A member of the ooffoo community wants to help you realise your passion. She offers a clarion call for anyone trying to feel fulfilled. Based on the philosophy that we are all needed and that the world needs your passion the trick then becomes how to find out what your passion is. And it&#8217;s easier than you think.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Amit</strong> presents <a href="http://www.mysticmadness.com/the-full-stop-theory.html">The Full Stop Theory</a> posted at <a href="http://www.mysticmadness.com">Mystic Madness</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>JL Scott</strong> presents <a href="http://www.jlscottrevolution.com/balancing-personal-business-goals/">Balancing your personal and your business goals</a> posted at <a href="http://www.jlscottrevolution.com">Strategies for Making Money Online and Your Home Business | JL Scott Revolution</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>SpiKe</strong> presents <a href="http://www.organizeit.co.uk/2009/03/11/3-practical-steps-for-controlling-your-negative-self-talk/">3 Practical Steps For Controlling Your Negative Self-Talk &#8211; Practical advice on personal development, productivity and GTD</a> posted at <a href="http://www.organizeit.co.uk">Organize IT</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Raphael Araujo</strong> presents <a href="http://www.kickassliving.com/kick_ass_living/2009/03/how-to-kick-ass-in-your-life.html">Kick Ass Living: How To Kick Ass In Your Life</a> posted at <a href="http://www.kickassliving.com/kick_ass_living/">Kick Ass Living</a>, saying, &#8220;Thanks!&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Khan</strong> presents <a href="http://www.kelloggforum.org/never-too-late-to-learn/">Never Too Late to Learn</a> posted at <a href="http://www.kelloggforum.org">Higher Education and Career Blog</a>, saying, &#8220;Older students are returning to college to start a degree, complete a degree, or gain technical knowledge in their career fields.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Rick Schiano</strong> presents <a href="http://www.tastingvictory.net/blog-test1/?p=1">Victory is a Thought Away</a> posted at <a href="http://www.tastingvictory.net/blog-test1">Ricks Victory Blog</a>.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Oct 2008 21:17:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As always on a Sunday, we pull together articles that will help us cope with our grief, our depression and help us gain a sense of purpose once again. Here is this weeks Carnival of Positive Thinking

BoH presents To fear or not to fear. posted at buddha of hollywood.

Chris Edgar presents To Feel Inspired, Focus On What You&#8217;re Contributing posted at Purpose Power Coaching, saying, &#8220;Many of us worry that, if we pursue our goals, we’ll be somehow taking from others and giving nothing in return.  In essence, we’re afraid that following our dreams might be inconsiderate or selfish. [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As always on a Sunday, we pull together articles that will help us cope with our grief, our depression and help us gain a sense of purpose once again. Here is this weeks Carnival of Positive Thinking<br />
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<p><strong>BoH</strong> presents <a href="http://buddhaofhollywood.blogspot.com/2008/10/to-fear-or-not-to-fear.html">To fear or not to fear.</a> posted at <a href="http://buddhaofhollywood.blogspot.com/">buddha of hollywood</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Chris Edgar</strong> presents <a href="http://www.purposepowercoaching.com/site/?p=88">To Feel Inspired, Focus On What You&#8217;re Contributing</a> posted at <a href="http://www.purposepowercoaching.com/site">Purpose Power Coaching</a>, saying, &#8220;Many of us worry that, if we pursue our goals, we’ll be somehow taking from others and giving nothing in return.  In essence, we’re afraid that following our dreams might be inconsiderate or selfish.  However, if you focus your attention on the ways what you plan to do would serve and create happiness in the world, you&#8217;ll likely begin to feel inspired again.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>AndrewB</strong> presents <a href="http://personalhack.com/2008/08/from-lame-to-fame-5-steps/">From Lame To Fame &#8211; 5 Steps</a> posted at <a href="http://personalhack.com">Personal Hack</a>, saying, &#8220;How to really become successful in every area of your life.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Frederic Premji</strong> presents <a href="http://www.ineedmotivation.com/blog/2008/10/the-power-of-asking/">The Power Of Asking</a> posted at <a href="http://www.ineedmotivation.com/blog">BlogMotivation.com</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Applying the Law of Attraction</strong> presents <a href="http://applying-the-law-of-attraction.com/mblog/can-the-law-of-attraction-bring-the-family-closer-together/">Can the Law of Attraction Bring the Family Closer Together?</a> posted at <a href="http://applying-the-law-of-attraction.com/mblog">Applying the Law of Attraction Membership Library</a>, saying, &#8220;With the law of attraction, you will come to see that you can do anything. You can focus on the family aspect, you can focus on yourself, you can focus on your career, but you can also work on anything else that you desire to.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Carole Gold</strong> presents <a href="http://blog.carolemckay.com/2008/10/14/trade-unions.aspx">Trade Unions</a> posted at <a href="http://blog.carolemckay.com">McKay Today</a>, saying, &#8220;Healing how we come to relationships and why.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Daphne</strong> presents <a href="http://www.joyfuldays.com/2008/10/do-it-yourself-joy/">Do It Yourself Joy</a> posted at <a href="http://www.joyfuldays.com">Joyful Days</a>, saying, &#8220;I used to think that other people could make me happy. This put unfair pressure on them and sent waves of disappointment over me. Of course at some point we all realise that we are responsible for our own happiness.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong> Bill Urell</strong> presents <a href="http://addictionrecoverybasics.com/2007/09/19/how-women-become-addicted/">How Women Become Addicted | Addiction Recovery Basics</a> posted at <a href="http://addictionrecoverybasics.com">Addiction Recovery Basics</a>, saying, &#8220;Reasons for, and the effects of addiction are distinctly different for women vs. men. Specifics are revealed as this article explores these differences.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Kenny Mc Bride</strong> presents <a href="http://kennymcbride.blogspot.com/2008/10/small-change-but-big-difference.html">USE SMART GOALS &#8211; SMALL CHANGE BUT A BIG DIFFERENCE</a> posted at <a href="http://kennymcbride.blogspot.com/">Positive Thinking &#8211; A Realistic Approach</a>, saying, &#8220;When was the last time you made changes in your life that made a difference? Chances are you don&#8217;t know. That&#8217;s because most people do not actively make changes in their life, they react to life and make what changes are necessary to the situation.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Anmol Mehta</strong> presents <a href="http://anmolmehta.com/blog/2008/10/01/10-keys-for-turning-ideas-into-reality/">10 Keys for Turning Ideas Into Reality</a> posted at <a href="http://anmolmehta.com/blog">Mastery of Meditation, Enlightenment &amp; Kundalini Yoga</a>, saying, &#8220;10 valuable and key tips for helping you to turn your ideas into reality. A great read for anyone interested in achieving their highest potential in life.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Abby Freedman</strong> presents <a href="http://ipickuppennies.blogspot.com/2008/10/its-little-early-for-thanksgiving-but.html">It&#8217;s a little early for Thanksgiving but&#8230;</a> posted at <a href="http://ipickuppennies.blogspot.com/">i pick up pennies</a>, saying, &#8220;I&#8217;m disabled, and during a recent dark spell I found 10 things about which I could be happy.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Donna Freedman</strong> presents <a href="http://blogs.moneycentral.msn.com/smartspending/archive/2008/10/08/think-this-is-the-end-write-yourself-a-new-beginning.aspx">At the end? Write yourself a new beginning</a> posted at <a href="http://blogs.moneycentral.msn.com/smartspending/default.aspx">Smart Spending</a>, saying, &#8220;What looks like the end of the world can actually be the beginning. Stability is a story that we tell ourselves so we feel good about staying right where we are in our lives. Security, whether it&#8217;s a marriage or a bunch of stocks, doesn&#8217;t always last. Sometimes it&#8217;s taken away and sometimes we decide we can live without it.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Stephen</strong> presents <a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com/courage-dream/">The Courage to Dream</a> posted at <a href="http://www.balancedexistence.com">Balanced Existence</a>, saying, &#8220;“You can achieve anything you want in life if you have the courage to dream it, the intelligence to make a realistic plan, and the will to see that plan through to the end.”&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Wakish</strong> presents <a href="http://wakish.info/secret-to-your-success-do-you-have-a-vision-of-who-you-are-who-you-want-to-be/">Secret to your success! Do you have a vision of who you are &amp; who you want to be ? | Wakish Wonderz</a> posted at <a href="http://wakish.info">Wakish Wonderz</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Chris Edgar</strong> presents <a href="http://www.purposepowercoaching.com/site/?p=177">Are You In Permanent &#8220;Crisis Mode&#8221;?</a> posted at <a href="http://www.purposepowercoaching.com/site">Purpose Power Coaching</a>, saying, &#8220;We can seriously limit our fulfillment if our attention is always on preparing for the worst rather than creating the life we want. One of the keys to freeing ourselves from permanent &#8220;crisis mode&#8221; is to pay close attention to our patterns of thinking and behavior, and notice the ways we’re constantly bracing ourselves for catastrophe in how we live. Here are three recommendations for developing this kind of awareness.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Sam</strong> presents <a href="http://www.surfersam.com/articles/relief-for-stress-anxiety-and-tension.shtml">NEW !! Relief for Stress, Anxiety and Tension. Symptoms and Relief. Cope and Manage Stress</a> posted at <a href="http://www.surfersam.com">Surfer Sam and Friends</a></p>
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<p><strong>Mitesh</strong> presents <a href="http://www.inventcreativity.com/2008/10/16/rejection-the-voice-in-the-back-of-your-head/">Rejection &amp; The Voice In The Back Of Your Head</a> posted at <a href="http://www.inventcreativity.com">Invent Creativity</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Ms. Cheevious</strong> presents <a href="http://mscheevious.wordpress.com/2008/10/16/surf-and-turf-baby/">Death of Paul Newman</a> posted at <a href="http://mscheevious.wordpress.com">Ms. Cheevious</a>, saying, &#8220;Fred the Wonder Chicken and I were talking about Paul Newman and how his death was such a great loss to our world&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Kacper Wrzesniewski</strong> presents <a href="http://www.kacperwrzesniewski.com3-motivation-tips-from-my-gym/">3 Motivation Tips From My Gym</a> posted at <a href="http://www.kacperwrzesniewski.com">KacperWrzesniewski.com</a>, saying, &#8220;Presented advices can help motivate you not only to regular exercising. They also work in other aspects of life.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Great Management</strong> presents <a href="http://www.greatmanagement.org/blogs/161/The-Power-of-Words.html">The Power of Words</a> posted at <a href="http://www.greatmanagement.org/blogs">The GreatManagement Blog</a>, saying, &#8220;Words are powerful. They can inspire confidence or they can have the exact opposite effect &#8211; create a lack of confidence. Let me give you an example, using the current presidential campaign.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Applying the Law of Attraction</strong> presents <a href="http://applying-the-law-of-attraction.com/mblog/can-you-bring-people-closer-with-the-law-of-attraction/">Can You Bring People Closer With the Law of Attraction?</a> posted at <a href="http://applying-the-law-of-attraction.com/mblog">Applying the Law of Attraction Membership Library</a>, saying, &#8220;Being positive and keeping a good outlook on life is going to be<br />
critical to having great success and being the person that you<br />
would like to become.  Knowing&#8230;&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Tushar Mathur</strong> presents <a href="http://travel-eat-sleep.com/seeing-cleveland/">Why You Should Travel</a> posted at <a href="http://travel-eat-sleep.com">Travel-Eat-Sleep</a>, saying, &#8220;Recently I traveled to Cleveland which sits beside Lake Erie in Ohio state. This major Midwestern city bustles with activity. There are lots of tourist attractions, festivals and events.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Roberto Montanez</strong> presents <a href="http://psychbits.com/3-keys-to-a-good-relationship/">3 Keys to a Good Relationship? Do you have them?</a> posted at <a href="http://psychbits.com">Psychbits</a>, saying, &#8220;There is nothing worse than being in a bad relationship and there is nothing better than being in a great relationship. But what makes a good relationship from a bad one? There are a plethora of factors influencing how good or bad a relationship can be. Some might say that love is all you need.  In my experience, all couples that make things work share these three common elements.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Nicholas Powiull</strong> presents <a href="http://consciousflex.blogspot.com/2008/01/3-easy-steps-to-freeing-yourself-of.html">Conscious Flex: 3 Easy Steps to Freeing Yourself of Depression: by Nicholas Powiull</a> posted at <a href="http://consciousflex.blogspot.com/">Conscious Flex</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Donald Latumahina</strong> presents <a href="http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/10/10/winning-character-traits-lifetime-success/">7 Winning Character Traits That Create A Lifetime Of Success</a> posted at <a href="http://www.lifeoptimizer.org">Life Optimizer</a>.</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jul 2008 16:16:23 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Another week and well done to us all&#8230;despite our grief, despite our hurt we have survived and moved a step closer to rebuilding our lives. To help I ask for articles to inspire positive thinking, enjoy

GP presents Lessons Dad Still Teaches Me posted at Innstyle Montana- Come on Inn, saying, &#8220;Life lessons my dad still teaches&#8221;

otherdeb (Deb Wunder) presents Getting Unstuck posted at The Dangling Conversation, saying, &#8220;This is a post about getting unstuck and moving forward.  Being a personal finance blogger, it&#8217;s geared toward that, but applies to many areas of life.&#8221;

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Another week and well done to us all&#8230;despite our grief, despite our hurt we have survived and moved a step closer to rebuilding our lives. To help I ask for articles to inspire positive thinking, enjoy<br />
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<p><strong>GP</strong> presents <a href="http://fvclassic.wordpress.com/2008/07/01/lessons-dad-still-teaches-me/">Lessons Dad Still Teaches Me</a> posted at <a href="http://fvclassic.wordpress.com">Innstyle Montana- Come on Inn</a>, saying, &#8220;Life lessons my dad still teaches&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>otherdeb (Deb Wunder)</strong> presents <a href="http://otherdeb.wordpress.com/2008/07/08/getting-unstuck/">Getting Unstuck</a> posted at <a href="http://otherdeb.wordpress.com">The Dangling Conversation</a>, saying, &#8220;This is a post about getting unstuck and moving forward.  Being a personal finance blogger, it&#8217;s geared toward that, but applies to many areas of life.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Joel Chue</strong> presents <a href="http://www.mindpowerspecialreport.com/blog/mind-power-the-power-of-attitude">Mind Power: The Power of Attitude </a>posted at <a href="http://www.mindpowerspecialreport.com">Mind Power: Unlock The Subconscious Mind Power Secrets</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Avani</strong> presents <a href="http://www.avani-mehta.com/2008/06/09/20-learnings-from-do-one-thing-different/">20 Learnings from Do One Thing Different</a> posted at <a href="http://www.avani-mehta.com">Avani-Mehta</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Arun</strong> presents <a href="http://dailyremedy.blogspot.com/2008/06/positive-spin.html">Positive Spin </a>posted at <a href="http://dailyremedy.blogspot.com/">Arun is Bringing You&#8230;Your Daily Remedy</a>, saying, &#8220;Simply changing your outlook can make everything in life seem brighter!&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Kirsten Harrell, Psy.D.</strong> presents <a href="http://ipopin.typepad.com/think_positive/2008/06/power-of-intent.html">Power of Intention</a> posted at <a href="http://ipopin.typepad.com/think_positive/">Think Positive! Blog &#8211; official blog for ipopin.com</a>, saying, &#8220;Intention is a powerful force that you can use to influence your health, your work, your relationship, and the world around you. In this article I share 8 steps to help you use the power of intention to create the life you want.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Shirley</strong> presents <a href="http://brightdays.wordpress.com/2008/06/18/a-positive-attitude-makes-all-the-difference/">A Positive Attitude Makes All The Difference</a> posted at <a href="http://brightdays.wordpress.com">Brighter Days for you and me!</a>, saying, &#8220;In your day to day life the most important ingredient in a successful day is your attitude. Attitude is your way of looking at the world. You can choose how to react to the stresses and strains of your day; with humor and good will, or whining and complaining.  It sounds simple, but it really isn’t.  It takes hard work and commitment to make an optimistic outlook a regular habit.  You can’t just hope or wish for more happiness, you have to work at it.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>ITAKEOFFTHEMASK</strong> presents <a href="http://itakeoffthemask.com/key-of-transmutation/positive-thinking-fails-the-law-of-attraction/">Positive Thinking Fails the Law of Attraction </a>posted at <a href="http://itakeoffthemask.com">itakeoffthemask.com</a>, saying, &#8220;Is positive thinking the correct way to achieve good things through the Law of Attraction?  In order to get to our desired end, we must have power to propel us. And this power is no other than our emotions in its purest forms. We do not ignore what is actually there.  We embrace the ebb of negative feelings and then we transmute these into good.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Zantor</strong> presents <a href="http://www.internetproductivity.org/2008/07/goals-the-spearhead-to-success/">Goals &#8211; The Spearhead to Success </a>posted at <a href="http://www.internetproductivity.org">Internet Productivity</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Ari Koinuma</strong> presents <a href="http://ourbestversion.com/2008/07/low-self-esteem-is-the-root-of-all-problems/">Low Self-Esteem Is the Root of All Problems </a>posted at <a href="http://ourbestversion.com">Ari Koinuma</a>, saying, &#8220;In this extended essay on self-esteem, you will get a comprehensive picture of what it is, how it gets compromised, and how you can restore it.  Low self-esteem is the underlying cause for all problems in your life — understanding this will pave the way to true and complete healing and unlocking your true potential as a human being.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>CG Walters</strong> presents <a href="http://kathmandau.blogspot.com/2008/06/laughing-is-praying.html">Laughing is Praying </a>posted at <a href="http://kathmandau.blogspot.com/">Into the Mist</a>, saying, &#8220;It makes perfect sense that laughter would be one of our surest invitations into audience with the Absolute. In the moment of a sincere laughter, the heart is open, the restrictive mind is lost, and we are completely genuine, naïve as a child.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Peter Murphy</strong> presents <a href="http://www.getmotivatedstaymotivated.com/blog/learning-and-doing-new-things-to-achieve-your-goals/">Learning And Doing New Things To Achieve Your Goals</a> posted at <a href="http://www.getmotivatedstaymotivated.com/blog">Get Motivated Stay Motivated</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>David B. Bohl</strong> presents <a href="http://www.slowdownfast.com/blog/the-power-of-focus-to-reach-your-goals/">The Power of Focus to Reach Your Goals</a> posted at <a href="http://www.slowdownfast.com/blog">Slow Down Fast Today!</a>, saying, &#8220;Finding One Center Until Success.  I just created this acronym to give you a visual of what focus means.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Ralph Jean-Paul</strong> presents <a href="http://potential2success.com/doingtheimpossible.html">Doing the Impossible</a> posted at <a href="http://www.potential2success.com">Potential 2 Success</a>, saying, &#8220;Am I setting you up for failure?  It depends on how your psyche interprets the heading above.  If all of your life you’ve been programmed to see unattainable as impossible, then yes I’m setting you up for failure.  That is, unless you can switch your thinking to the plane of believing in your ability to accomplish the impossible.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Nick</strong> presents <a href="http://www.your-nemesis.com/blog/?p=6">All Wrong? </a>posted at <a href="http://www.your-nemesis.com/blog">Nemesis</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Nadege</strong> presents <a href="http://clearlyenvizion.blogspot.com/2008/03/when-was-last-time-you-congradulated.html">When was the last time you congratulated yourself? </a>posted at <a href="http://clearlyenvizion.blogspot.com/">Clearly Envision</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Andrew Heath</strong> presents <a href="http://www.heathcreativesolutions.com/7-9-08-purpose-apology.htm">The Purpose of Apology </a>posted at <a href="http://www.heathcreativesolutions.com">Andy</a>.</p>
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		<title>The Strength of Hope in Grief</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Mar 2008 15:01:38 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Yesterday I wrote about What is the Meaning of Life? Today I am thinking that hope is such an important of finding that happiness in life
H= Having life goals that you strive for
O= Owning the thought that you are in control of your life and that you can define your own happiness
P= Putting an emphasis on the future. The past is memory and makes you who you are, the future is yours to create.
E= Expectations that are realistic and yet stretching. I think sometimes we can expect too much or even not enough. Getting the 			  balance is important in [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Yesterday I wrote about <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/what-is-life-about/">What is the Meaning of Life</a>? Today I am thinking that hope is such an important of finding that happiness in life</p>
<p><strong>H= H</strong>aving life goals that you strive for<a href="javascript:void(0)" id="file-link-752" title="beautiflmodelvswall.jpg" class="file-link image"><img src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2007/11/beautiflmodelvswall.thumbnail.jpg" title="beautiflmodelvswall.jpg" alt="beautiflmodelvswall.jpg" align="right" /></a></p>
<p><strong>O= O</strong>wning the thought that you are in control of your life and that you can define your own happiness</p>
<p><strong>P= P</strong>utting an emphasis on the future. <em><strong>The past is memory and makes you who you are, the future is yours to create.</strong></em></p>
<p><strong>E= E</strong>xpectations that are realistic and yet stretching. I think sometimes we can expect too much or even not enough. Getting the<a href="javascript:void(0)" id="file-link-752" title="beautiflmodelvswall.jpg" class="file-link image"> 			 </a> balance is important in finding the happiness that we desire.</p>
<p>Again I throw it open&#8230;what do you think? What would you H.O.P.E acronym stand for?</p>
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		<title>Goals for the 2007</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Jan 2007 10:09:19 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As you know I feel goals are important and I wanted to publicly write down how I will overcome my grief this year. Somehow putting the ideas on paper &#8211; or the web &#8211; help form that level of commitment that you need to keep the motivation going. So here they are

Publish the Widows Quest podcast by 12 January and keep to a weekly schedule.
Lose 2 stone in weight.
Join a community group to support others with bereavement.
Achieve a life/work balance by downsizing both my career and my lifestyle.
Move house &#8211; back nearer to my family and friends.

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As you know I feel goals are important and I wanted to publicly write down how I will overcome my grief this year. Somehow putting the ideas on paper &#8211; or the web &#8211; help form that level of commitment that you need to keep the motivation going. So here they are</p>
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<li>Publish the Widows Quest podcast by 12 January and keep to a weekly schedule.</li>
<li>Lose 2 stone in weight.</li>
<li>Join a community group to support others with bereavement.</li>
<li>Achieve a life/work balance by downsizing both my career and my lifestyle.<img id="image178" height="96" alt="brain.jpg" src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2006/11/brain.thumbnail.jpg" width="103" align="right" /></li>
<li>Move house &#8211; back nearer to my family and friends.</li>
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<p>I will each week give you an update on how I am doing &#8211; what are yours? How are you going to take action to turn your life around? How are you going to value your life and create value for others?</p>
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