On last nights online grief meeting we talked about the difficulty in finding who you are….
It is interesting that I have always seen myself as independent, a romantic yes…but never thought that I had lost that independence. Then death happens and suddenly you don’t know who you are….somehow you realise that you had morphed from a person to a couple and your other half is missing.
I often write about defining yourself, in fact last week I talked about Building A New Life From Grief and said
“To build for the future you need to come to terms with who you are, …read more

Widows Quest tries to bring people together who in grief feel alone, or are looking for support through their bereavement. Last Friday night we held another online meeting and it was fabulous speaking to readers – actually now friends – of Widows Quest.
I talked about how grief has been strange recently. I feel, most days!, that I can cope but that there is still something missing. I think you can get to a stage where you learn to cope with the emotions on a daily basis but that you still feel that there is just something missing – something I …read more