Pictures in our mind our so important and I have written often on the subject. There is a wonderful quote from Arthur C Clarke that says
“The only way of finding the limits of the possible is by going beyond them into the impossible.”
As widows or widowers, we can forget about what is possible and concentrate on what seems impossible. But over the years I have realised that the only things that are truly impossible are the ones that our minds block, that our mind talks negatively to us about.
Key is seeing a picture in your mind of you …read more

I came across this quote that made me think, it is by Charolotte-Catherine
“The more passions and desires one has, the more ways one has of being happy.”
The issue is that one of our passions has died, the bereavement can make us feel that all our passion has disappeared. In reality that is not true. We may be going through grief, but passion is still live and well in our minds, our bodies and our soul. What we have to do as widows or widowers, is to look deep inside and find our passions again.
Our passions were in some way tied …read more