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		<title>Carnival of Positive Thinking</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Oct 2008 12:39:20 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For all of you suffering heartbreak or grieving the loss of a loved one here are a collection of articles to help change that depression into positive thinking.
Well it has been a strange week, I started in hospital and finished it in hospital however, the news today is that I am feeling brighter so again thank you for all your well wishes &#8211; I, for one, is in need for some positive thinking at the moment 


Jason Koeppe presents How To Think Positively &#8211; Your Individual Development Plan posted at Z-Synergy Zurvita Reps Team Blog, saying, &#8220;A step-by-step action plan [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For all of you <strong>suffering heartbreak</strong> or <strong>grieving the loss</strong> of a loved one here are a collection of articles to help change that depression into positive thinking.</p>
<p>Well it has been a strange week, I started in hospital and finished it in hospital however, the news today is that I am feeling brighter so again thank you for all your well wishes &#8211; I, for one, is in need for some positive thinking at the moment <img src='http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /><br />
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<p><strong>Jason Koeppe</strong> presents <a href="http://www.zsynergyteam.com/how-to-think-positively-your-individual-development-plan.htm">How To Think Positively &#8211; Your Individual Development Plan</a> posted at <a href="http://www.zsynergyteam.com">Z-Synergy Zurvita Reps Team Blog</a>, saying, &#8220;A step-by-step action plan to improve your attitude and attract the right things into your life.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Mac</strong> presents <a href="http://www.samaritans.org/talk_to_someone.aspx">Talk To Someone</a> posted at <a href="http://www.samaritans.org">Samaritans</a>, saying, &#8220;These people are fantastic at what they do.&#8221;</p>
<p><strong>Anna </strong>presents <a href="http://theengagingbrand.typepad.com/the_engaging_brand_/2008/10/when-i-ask-you.html">When I Ask You To Listen to Me</a> posted at <a href="http://www.theengagingbrand.com">The Engaging Brand </a></p>
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<p><strong>Dawn Abraham Life Coach</strong> presents <a href="http://www.qualified-lifecoach.com/Say_Yes_to_Life.html">Say Yes to Life and Let Your World Expand Beyond Belief!</a> posted at <a href="http://www.qualified-lifecoach.com/">Qualified Life Coach</a>, saying, &#8220;Say yes to life is a powerful and life altering concept. It means you are open to all possibilities. You are flexible. You are not afraid to take risks. Do you know how fabulous your life can be when you are open and willing to fully participate?&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Stephen Martile</strong> presents <a href="http://www.freedomeducation.ca/2008/10/02/law-of-attraction/">Law of Attraction</a> posted at <a href="http://www.freedomeducation.ca">FreedomEducation.ca by Stephen Martile</a>, saying, &#8220;The Law of Attraction states that you attract what you think about. Thoughts are magnetic. I’ve arranged these principles into a question and answer format to make them easier for me to explain.</p>
<p>1. Who are you?<br />
2. Why are you here?<br />
3. What is your purpose?&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>kenny mc bride</strong> presents <a href="http://kennymcbride.blogspot.com/2008/10/power-of-pen.html">The Power Of The Pen</a> posted at <a href="http://kennymcbride.blogspot.com/">Positive Thinking &#8211; A Realistic Approach</a>, saying, &#8220;Writing you goals down is a vital part of achieving success. It is also important to write down your current problems and challenges so you can physically see your issues and free the mind to find solutions. Use the power of the pen to change your life today..&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Carole Gold</strong> presents <a href="http://blog.carolemckay.com/2008/10/06/life-and-death.aspx">Life and Death</a> posted at <a href="http://blog.carolemckay.com">McKay Today</a>, saying, &#8220;How one cat taught a lesson in endurance and a true zest for life.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>AndrewB</strong> presents <a href="http://personalhack.com/2008/10/free-e-book-7-roadblocks-to-success/">FREE E-Book: 7 Roadblocks To Success</a> posted at <a href="http://personalhack.com">Personal Hack</a>, saying, &#8220;Did you know that either success or a failure is usually a pattern in your life? Think back about the last few goals you made, or challenges you went through. Did you fail or succeed? In my FREE E-Book I teach you how to make success a pattern in your life.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>The Push Up Coach</strong> presents <a href="http://www.1000pushups.com/2007/10/5-life-lessons-i-learned-from-push-ups.html">5 Life Lessons I Learned From Push Ups</a> posted at <a href="http://www.1000pushups.com/">The 1000 Push Ups Club</a>, saying, &#8220;Some lessons you learn from doing pushups.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong> Bill Urell</strong> presents <a href="http://addictionrecoverybasics.com/2007/09/19/how-women-become-addicted/">How Women Become Addicted | Addiction Recovery Basics</a> posted at <a href="http://addictionrecoverybasics.com">Addiction Recovery Basics</a>, saying, &#8220;Lets start with history. For over a hundred years in this country, women and girls have been encouraged to self-medicate for emotional and physical symptoms of the hormonal cycle, which were labeled hysteria in the nineteenth century.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Toni</strong> presents <a href="http://blogs.inquirer.net/happynest/2008/10/09/what-if-we-change-the-perspective-on-what-ifs/">What if we change the perspective on what-ifs?</a> posted at <a href="http://blogs.inquirer.net/happynest">Happy Nest</a>.</p>
<p><strong>David B Bohl</strong> presents <a href="http://www.slowdownfast.com/blog/what-to-do-when-your-life-is-falling-apart/">What To Do When Your Life is Falling Apart</a> posted at <a href="http://www.slowdownfast.com/blog">Slow Down Fast Today!</a>, saying, &#8220;You lost your job. Your best friend isn’t talking to you. You hurt your back. You are one month away from foreclosure on your home. Your child is sick. Your father died. It is really important that you can look deep into yourself and see that some of these things are beyond your control — while others are completely in your power to fix.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Peter Murphy</strong> presents <a href="http://www.getmotivatedstaymotivated.com/blog/5-easy-ways-to-drop-self-doubt-and-the-fear-of-making-mistakes/">5 Easy Ways To Drop Self-Doubt And The Fear Of Making Mistakes</a> posted at <a href="http://www.getmotivatedstaymotivated.com/blog">Get Motivated Stay Motivated</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Kacper Wrzesniewski</strong> presents <a href="http://www.kacperwrzesniewski.com/just-start-energy-will-follow/">Just start. Energy will follow.</a> posted at <a href="http://www.kacperwrzesniewski.com">KacperWrzesniewski.com</a>, saying, &#8220;Do you suffer from a lack of energy to start a new project or next task from your to do list? Not only you.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Albert Foong</strong> presents <a href="http://www.urbanmonk.net/295/the-importance-of-setting-personal-boundaries/">The Importance of Setting Personal Boundaries » Personal Development &#8211; UrbanMonk.Net</a> posted at <a href="http://www.urbanmonk.net">Urban Monk</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>HighGrace</strong> presents <a href="http://facetothesun.com/2008/10/humancondition/3-things-make-you-happier/">3 things that will make you happier</a> posted at <a href="http://facetothesun.com">Face to the Sun</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Erin Pavlina</strong> presents <a href="http://www.erinpavlina.com/blog/2008/09/how-do-you-recover-after-an-emotional-setback/">How do you recover after an emotional setback?</a> posted at <a href="http://www.erinpavlina.com/blog">Erin Pavlina&#8217;s Blog</a>, saying, &#8220;How do you raise your energy when you’ve been stepped on and emotionally trounced by another person, and your self esteem is so low that you can’t even imagine ever being happy again?&#8221;</p>
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		<title>A Quote on Heartbreak</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 13 Sep 2008 11:43:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I came across this quote which made me smile about the heartbreak you feel when you are going through the grief cycle
&#8220;Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around 			 in the daytime, and falling in at night.  I miss you like hell.&#8221;  ~Edna St. Vincent Millay
  


I think it sums it all up!
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I came across this quote which made me smile about the heartbreak you feel when you are going through the grief cycle</p>
<p align="center"><strong>&#8220;</strong><font face="georgia, bookman old style, palatino linotype, book antiqua, palatino, trebuchet ms, helvetica, garamond, sans-serif, arial, verdana, avante garde, century gothic, comic sans ms, times, times new roman, serif"><strong>Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around</strong></font><a href="javascript:void(0)" id="file-link-201" title="heartintherain.jpg" class="file-link image"> 			<img src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2006/11/heartintherain.thumbnail.jpg" title="heartintherain.jpg" alt="heartintherain.jpg" align="right" /></a><font face="georgia, bookman old style, palatino linotype, book antiqua, palatino, trebuchet ms, helvetica, garamond, sans-serif, arial, verdana, avante garde, century gothic, comic sans ms, times, times new roman, serif"><strong> in the daytime, and falling in at night.  I miss you like hell.&#8221; </strong> ~Edna St. Vincent Millay</font></p>
<p align="center"> <a href="javascript:void(0)" id="file-link-201" title="heartintherain.jpg" class="file-link image"> </a><a href="javascript:void(0)" id="file-link-201" title="heartintherain.jpg" class="file-link image"><br />
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<p align="center">I think it sums it all up!</p>
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		<title>Love Letters Bring Comfort To Our Heartbreak</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 01 Aug 2008 08:51:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Memories are so wonderful and I loved this story that I found over at MamaConnies blog called My Best Valentine. MamaConnie describes herself as 84 years young and lost her husband in 2000 after 57 years together. She was sorting through her Valentine letters and saw these words thateased her grief
&#8220;Proverbsl 18: 22 says:”He that findeth a good wife findeth a good thing.” When I see something I really want I try to get it.The first time I saw you I said,’that’s for me.’ I proposed on our first date. I think I proposed on every other date but you [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Memories are so wonderful and I loved this story that I found over at <a href="http://mamaconnie.tumblr.com/post/44260299/my-best-valentine">MamaConnies blog called My Best Valentine</a>. MamaConnie describes herself as <strong>84 years young</strong> and lost her husband in 2000 after 57 years together. She was sorting through her Valentine letters and saw these words thateased her grief</p>
<p align="center">&#8220;Proverbsl 18: 22 says:”He that findeth a good wife findeth a good thing.” When I see something I really want I try to get it.The first time I saw you I said,’that’s for me.’ I proposed on our first date. I think I proposed on every other date but you would never say yes.I finally bought a ring and put it on your finger and told you we were going to get married. I must have really been in love because I sold my 28 Chevy to buy that ring.</p>
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<p align="center">One week before we married I quit my job.I was always real smart and you had to loan me 30 dollars to get married. I never paid you back but I have tried to keep the interest paid.</p>
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<p align="center">When you were asked if you would marry me again you said, yes, but you wanted to change the part of the wedding vows concerning POORER!</p>
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<p align="center">You have been a good mother to our children and a wonderful companion to me. I just want you to know I do not regret the decision I made over 48 years go—to chase you til  you caught me!<a href="javascript:void(0)" id="file-link-9" title="Wedding Rings" class="file-link image"> 			<img src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2006/02/weddingrings.thumbnail.jpg" title="Wedding Rings" alt="Wedding Rings" align="right" width="103" height="75" /></a></p>
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<p align="center">You were my valentine then, and you are my valentine now.&#8221;<a href="javascript:void(0)" id="file-link-9" title="Wedding Rings" class="file-link image"> </a></p>
<p align="center">As she says at the end &#8211; <strong>wonderful memories!</strong></p>
<p align="center"> <strong>Remember to email me</strong> &#8211; anna@b5media.com your<a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/how-i-will-honour-dads-memory/"> memories for the 10th August as I pull together a memorial post for my wonderful Dad</a></p>
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		<title>A Journey Through Grief</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 12 Jan 2008 08:37:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We all find our own way of coping with grief, someone of us become insular, some of us start doing things that we would not have dreamed of before. I was reading today about Libby Southwell who started on a journey of self exploration and has written a book about it called Monsoon Rains and Icicle Drops 			 
The book &#8220;Monsoon Rains is a story of one woman’s search for happiness, healing and recovery in the face of heartbreak. The book is a keeper, not just for its beautifully packaged pages (featuring floral Mongolian motifs and artistic scrawls) but the message [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We all find our own way of coping with grief, someone of us become insular, some of us start doing things that we would not have dreamed of before. I was reading today about <a href="http://thestar.com.my/lifestyle/story.asp?file=/2008/1/11/lifebookshelf/19582395&amp;sec=lifebookshelf">Libby Southwell who started on a journey of self exploration</a> and has written a book about it called <a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/gp/product/1740457897?ie=UTF8&amp;tag=grief-21&amp;linkCode=as2&amp;camp=1634&amp;creative=6738&amp;creativeASIN=1740457897">Monsoon Rains and Icicle Drops</a><a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/wp-admin/upload.php?style=inline&amp;tab=browse-all&amp;post_id=-1200040641&amp;ID=835&amp;action=view&amp;paged" id="file-link-835" title="Monsoon rains, Book on Grief" class="file-link image"> 			 <img src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2008/01/monsoonbook.thumbnail.jpg" title="Monsoon rains, Book on Grief" alt="Monsoon rains, Book on Grief" align="right" height="110" width="73" /></a><img src="http://www.assoc-amazon.co.uk/e/ir?t=grief-21&amp;l=as2&amp;o=2&amp;a=1740457897" style="border: medium none  ! important; margin: 0px ! important" border="0" height="1" width="1" /></p>
<p>The book &#8220;<span class="text"><em>Monsoon Rains</em> is a story of one woman’s search for happiness, healing and recovery in the face of heartbreak. The book is a keeper, not just for its beautifully packaged pages (featuring floral Mongolian motifs and artistic scrawls) but the message of strength it delivers. In addition, part proceeds go to AdoptSrilanka, the charity Southwell was instrumental in setting up.&#8221;</span></p>
<p>If you were going to write your personal journey what would it be called ? I think mine might be called To Hell and Back!</p>
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		<title>Our latest winner of the Blogtoberfest!</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 22 Oct 2007 19:08:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[The names have been put in a hat and a name chosen for the winner to the post &#8211; No Matter How Bad You Think It Is..remember there is still one prize left and I will announce the winner to that one on Wednesday so it is not too late to enter by leaving a comment to the post We Can Make  A Difference
But today the lucky winner is Shari &#8211; well done and you are the winner of $25 of skin lotion &#8211; you will be contacted shortly.
What I like about these competitions is the chance to give a [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>The names have been put in a hat and a name chosen for the winner to the post &#8211; <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/no-matter-how-bad-you-think-it-isyou-could-win-a-prize-with-this-post/#comments">No Matter How Bad You Think It Is</a>..remember there is still one prize left and I will announce the winner to that one on Wednesday so it is not too late to enter by leaving a comment to the post <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2007/10/skinlotion.jpg" title="skinlotion.jpg"></a><a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/blog-action-day-we-can-make-a-difference/">We Can Make  A Difference</a><img src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2007/10/skinlotion.thumbnail.jpg" alt="skinlotion.jpg" align="right" /></p>
<p>But today the lucky winner is Shari &#8211; well done and you are the winner of $25 of skin lotion &#8211; you will be contacted shortly.</p>
<p>What I like about these competitions is the chance to give a little light to your day&#8230;.maybe winning a small prize will bring a little happiness to your day.</p>
<p>The last post that you can win a prize on <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/blog-action-day-we-can-make-a-difference/">We Can Make A Difference</a>  is a wonderful chance to show that no matter how low we feel, no matter how little value we feel in our lives&#8230;there is always the opportunity to make a difference for others&#8230;and the more you give value to others, the more you feel value in your own life.</p>
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		<title>No Matter How Bad You Think It Is&#8230;.You Could Win a Prize with This Post!</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have a friend who gives me some really wonderful thoughts and also makes me smile with some of her odd/unusual sayings. Here is one that I always remember..
I say &#8220;It is so painful, I feel so out of control, it just can&#8217;t feel any worse&#8230;&#8221;
I look at her, expecting comfort and she says..
&#8220;Don&#8217;t worry, no matter how bad you think things are..always remember they can and will probably get even worse..so enjoy this moment, it could be as good as it gets&#8221;
She was smiling as she said it, and it made me laugh..she was actually right and also when [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have a friend who gives me some really wonderful thoughts and also makes me smile with some of her odd/unusual sayings. Here is one that I always remember..</p>
<p>I say &#8220;It is so painful, I feel so out of control, it just can&#8217;t feel any worse&#8230;&#8221;</p>
<p>I look at her, expecting comfort and she says..</p>
<p>&#8220;Don&#8217;t worry, no matter how bad you think things are..always remember they can and will probably get even worse..so enjoy this moment, it could be as good as it gets&#8221;</p>
<p>She was smiling as she said it, and it made me laugh..she was actually right and also when I see some of the poverty and violence in the world, I do know deep down that there are people feeling more pain than me.</p>
<p>I have always remembered her saying that and when I get down..I remember those words, smile, take a deep intake of breath and then face the world again, knowing happiness is within our control, take a moment to remember how special life really is&#8230; <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/wp-admin/upload.php?style=inline&amp;tab=browse-all&amp;post_id=-1192648954&amp;_wpnonce=a2e75a5ed6&amp;ID=715&amp;action=view&amp;paged" id="file-link-715" title="blogtoberfest.jpg" class="file-link image"> </a></p>
<p>For your chance to win&#8230;let me know how you take control..what makes you happy?</p>
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