Holiday periods are for me the worst time of the year. Worse than anniversaries, worse than birthdays. I think it is because the holiday season is too many one of the happiest family times, and the gap becomes even more evident than normal. Also all the traditions that you did together, come back to you…
I believe that the best way to cope with the holiday season is to prepare ahead of time. Here are some things that I do but would love you all to share how you prepare…maybe we can find a best practice?

I still buy presents for the …read more

Oh dear what a Christmas – I was blue lighted into hospital last Sunday and spent all of the holiday in hospital. Today (Sat 29th) I have been allowed out for a couple of days as I won’t be having my operation until next week. It is wonderful to see family and friends.
The holiday season is normally a tough time with many memories however this year I have found a new way of coping with grief – be ill and worry about your health!
I would like to thank everyone for the wonderful thoughts they sent me, I am sure everything …read more