This morning I woke, the bedroom was very dark except for a ray of incredibly bright light shining through the smallest crack in the curtains. It was a wonderful way to start the day, as I felt that he was sending me a clear message from the heavens above…for all the darkness that surronds you, the smallest ray of hope is worth holding on to and enjoying.
I went down stairs and figured there were many rays of hopes for all of us widows and widowers, here are some I jotted down

The smile that I made when I saw a young …read more

Just a couple of thoughts for the weekend on the need for hope, the thought of falling in love again and the risk that love brings for your heart – however, for all that pain I would not swap that feeling of real love that I was lucky enough to have,  for anything, would you?
“May the love hidden deep inside your heart find the love waiting in your dreams. May the laughter that you find in your tomorrow wipe away the pain you find in your yesterdays”
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“Love comes to those who still hope even though they’ve been disappointed, to …read more

I think we can often feel guilty about enjoying our lives, guilty about laughing but laughing is an important part of anyone’s life. Take a look at these quotes
“Mirth is God’s medicine. Everybody ought to bathe in it.” ~ Henry Ward Beecher
“Laughter is the sun that drives winter from the human face.” ~ Victor Hugo
“The most wasted of all days is one without laughter.” ~ E.E.   Cummings
Laughter enables the positive chemicals in our body to circulate, it really is the best medicine. Laughter never means that we are forgetting our lost loved ones, it does not mean …read more