Grief can make you think differently about love.
I know that I have at various stages thought that I never want to love again, I miss being with the person I love, I hate love, I want to love but don’t think that I ever will again.
I have come to the conclusion that there are 4 stages

Letting go of believing that your loved one will somehow come back into your life
Learning to love yourself again
Allowing yourself to feel again and accepting that love is a natural emotion and that it is OK to love again
Being open to love again and finding …read more

I went to see my nana today who is 98 years old. I love going to see her as she is a real character and someone that I have always felt close to…
Despite being a widow for over 15 years, she has remained strong. She always says that despite who you love, life is for living. We came into this world alone and leave alone. During the time we have we learn to love, we are loved but as individuals. You must learn to love yourself first, so that you can give the most value to the world. She says …read more