Coping with the Anniversary of Death
February 2, 2009 by Anna Farmery
Filed under Building Memorials
I know that one of our readers had an anniversary yesterday and it would be great to know how she but here are my thoughts
Allow yourself to mourn. That may take different forms but if you want to cry then let yourself cry. We are trying to be strong and rebuild our lives and we are allowed to feel the pain of someone dying.
I try not to be alone as much as I want to be, I know that it will cause depression so I make sure that either a close friend comes round or I visit my mum.
When I am …read more
What we should wish for in our grief
July 25, 2008 by Anna Farmery
Filed under Grief
I posted yesterday about Is there life after death, and Diane wrote such wonderful words that I wanted to share them with you. She also left a link to the Waterbug story
“I believe that the loss of a loved one does change you forever but that the change isn’t always a bad thing. The days will come when the smiles will take over the tears when talking about our loved ones. Everything we go though in this life as an affect on us death is no different.”
It was the last sentence that made me really think…”everything we got through….has …read more
