Self confidence has always been an issue for me, I know that I miss someone by the side of me saying “Come on girl, you can do it!”. I have always felt a little inadequate, not really worthy of the things around me – not even at times of the love we shared. However in grief you have to find a way of connecting with that inner strength, of connecting with the positive YOU!
When someone dies your partner in life has gone, the dividing of chores disappears – suddenly you have to face it all, on your own.
However, I have …read more

I was lucky enough last week to meet a truly inpirational lady. Roz Savage is not just sitting back and allowing life to happen she is creating her own future. She is – would you believe – rowing the Pacific Ocean, well what else do you do when you have already rowed the Atlantic!
She helped me see through the darkness and see that 2009 was a year in which we could all define our success, our own happiness and she sent me this quote from Chidinma Obietikponah

Always show the you in you that makes you the you that you are.

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