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		<title>Carnival of Positive Thinking</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 19 Aug 2007 19:47:17 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[As I do each Sunday night, I have gathered some posts that will help us face the next week. Grief is hard, these posts help show that there is a future for us all.

Chris Stevens presents Positive Thought for the day posted at Positive thoughts and more.

Matt presents Inner Purpose vs. Outer Purpose posted at EverydayChange.com saying, &#8220;Reflections on life purposes &#8211; inner purposes versus outer purposes.&#8221;

edithyeung presents I Have Confidence posted at Edith Yeung.Com:  Dream.ThinkAct..

James Bishop presents 12 Ways to Care for a Depressed Person posted at  Finding Optimism, saying, &#8220;The person with depression can&#8217;t see a [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As I do each Sunday night, I have gathered some posts that will help us face the next week. Grief is hard, these posts help show that there is a future for us all.<br />
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<p><strong>Chris Stevens</strong> presents <a href="http://positive1000.blogspot.com/2007/08/positive-thought-for-day_7970.html">Positive Thought for the day</a> posted at <a href="http://positive1000.blogspot.com/">Positive thoughts and more</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Matt</strong> presents <a href="http://everydaychange.com/2007/08/13/inner-purpose-vs-outer-purpose/">Inner Purpose vs. Outer Purpose</a> posted at <a href="http://everydaychange.com">EverydayChange.com</a> saying, &#8220;Reflections on life purposes &#8211; inner purposes versus outer purposes.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>edithyeung</strong> presents <a href="http://www.edithyeung.com/2007/06/24/i-have-confidence/">I Have Confidence posted at </a><a href="http://www.edithyeung.com">Edith Yeung.Com:  Dream.ThinkAct.</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>James Bishop</strong> presents <a href="http://www.findingoptimism.com/lifestyle/12-ways-to-care-for-a-depressed-person/">12 Ways to Care for a Depressed Person</a> posted at <a href="http://www.findingoptimism.com"> Finding Optimism</a>, saying, &#8220;The person with depression can&#8217;t see a way forward. They fervently believe that nobody can help them, and life is pointless. That doesn&#8217;t mean that they&#8217;re right.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Tupelo Kenyon</strong> presents <a href="http://www.tupelokenyon.com/2007/08/10/thriving-or-just-surviving/">Spiritually Thriving by Choice</a> posted at <a href="http://www.tupelokenyon.com">Tupelo Kenyon</a>, saying, &#8220;As we go through the motions of life, eventually it becomes apparent that what we have to do to get by needs to be balanced with our deep longing to thrive spiritually. Our activities need to be undertaken consciously. Our choices need to be made deliberately &#8211; with full awareness of the potential consequences as well as the potential rewards.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Marc and Angel</strong> presents <a href="http://www.marcandangel.com/2007/07/10/10-things-we-all-celebrate-subconsciously/">10 Things We All Celebrate Subconsciously</a> posted at <a href="http://www.marcandangel.com">Marc and Angel</a>, saying, &#8220;There are certain intricacies in life that we all repeatedly and unintentionally celebrate on a regular basis. These celebrated incidents are composed of the smaller things in life, those seemingly inconsequential events that instantly place us in a better mood.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Marc and Angel</strong> presents <a href="http://www.marcandangel.com/2007/07/30/here-in-the-real-world-20-lessons-for-life/">Here in the Real World: 20 Lessons for Life</a> posted at <a href="http://www.marcandangel.com">  Here you will find a list of 20 lessons I’ve learned in the “real world” thus far.&#8221;</a></p>
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<p><strong>James</strong> presents <a href="http://theresourcefulmind.blogspot.com/2007/08/why-immersion-is-essential-factor-to.html">Why Immersion is the Essential Factor to Any Success Model posted at </a><a href="http://theresourcefulmind.blogspot.com/">The Resourceful Mind</a>, saying, &#8220;Why immersion works and how it should be used in combination with success models and strategies to achieve various goals, including financial abundance, successful relationships, physical fitness, etc.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>GP</strong> presents <a href="http://fishcreekhouse.blogspot.com/2007/08/monthly-missive.html">A Monthly Missive posted at </a><a href="http://fishcreekhouse.blogspot.com/">Fish Creek House &#8211; INNside Innkeeping</a>, saying, &#8220;Celebration of life&#8217;s changes&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Alvaro Fernandez</strong> presents <a href="http://www.sharpbrains.com/blog/2007/08/16/brain-training-games-and-games/">Brain Training Games and &#8220;Games&#8221;</a> posted at <a href="http://www.sharpbrains.com">SharpBrains </a>saying, &#8220;Explaining how to navigate through the growing number of &#8220;brain training&#8221; claims-some of which can be helpful for emotional self-regulation.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Dominic Tay</strong> presents <a href="http://dominictay.com/blog/learning_experiences/how-to-deal-with-negativity/">How To Deal With Negativity</a> posted at <a href="http://dominictay.com">Dominic Tay Dot Com</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Millionaire Mommy Next Door</strong> presents <a href="http://millionairemommynextdoor.blogspot.com/2007/07/years-worth-of-weekly-cheap-dates.html">A Year&#8217;s Worth of Weekly Cheap Dates posted at </a><a href="http://millionairemommynextdoor.blogspot.com/">Millionaire Mommy Next Door</a>, saying, &#8220;I&#8217;ve created a list of 52 (weekly) fun and cheap dates. Perhaps I&#8217;ve come up with a few ideas you&#8217;d enjoy, too.&#8221;</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 12 Aug 2007 21:34:43 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I love this Sunday night&#8217;s regular blog carnival as it gives me a lift for the wee. Today it is even more special as it would have been Dad&#8217;s 83rd birthday and he was the most positive person I have ever known. He may have gone from our world but tonight I want this carnival to be dedicated to the man who who brought &#8220;positivity&#8221; to every aspect of his life. I miss and will always miss you Dad&#8230;.

Albert Foong presents How to remove negative thoughts and tame your monkey mind, Part 1 posted at Urban Monk, saying, &#8220;Controlling your [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love this Sunday night&#8217;s regular blog carnival as it gives me a lift for the wee. Today it is even more special as it would have been Dad&#8217;s 83rd birthday and he was the most positive person I have ever known. He may have gone from our world but tonight I want this carnival to be dedicated to the man who who brought &#8220;positivity&#8221; to every aspect of his life. I miss and will always miss you Dad&#8230;.<br />
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<p><strong>Albert Foong</strong> presents <a href="http://www.urbanmonk.net/108/how-to-remove-negative-thoughts-and-tame-your-monkey-mind-part-1/">How to remove negative thoughts and tame your monkey mind, Part 1</a> posted at <a href="http://www.urbanmonk.net">Urban Monk</a>, saying, &#8220;Controlling your mind &#8211; comprehensive and practical tips from the most respected systems, given the special Urban Monk treatment!&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Fired up Phil</strong> presents <a href="http://firedupphil.wordpress.com/2007/08/01/attitude-plays-a-huge-role-in-attaining-success-and-living-the-life-of-your-dreams/"><br />
ATTITUDE Plays a Huge Role in Attaining Success And Living The Life of Your Dreams </a> posted at <a href="http://firedupphil.wordpress.com">firedupphil</a></p>
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<p><strong>SJ Yee</strong> presents <a href="http://richgrad.com/10-secrets-to-happiness-i-learnt-from-andrew-matthews/">10 Secrets to Happiness I learnt from Andrew Matthews</a> posted at <a href="http://richgrad.com">Personal Development for the Book Smart</a>, saying, &#8220;Always look on the bright side of life!&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Chris Stevens</strong> presents <a href="http://positive1000.blogspot.com/2007/08/positive-thought-for-day_05.html">Positive Thought for the day</a> posted at <a href="http://positive1000.blogspot.com/">Positive thoughts and more</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>edithyeung</strong> presents <a href="http://www.edithyeung.com/2007/07/13/12-secrets-to-establish-your-personal-creditability-increase-your-personal-credit-score/"><br />
12 Secrets to Establish Your Personal Creditability (Increase Your Personal Credit Score) posted at </a><a href="http://www.edithyeung.com">Edith Yeung.Com:Dream.Think.Act.</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Tupelo Kenyon</strong> presents <a href="http://www.tupelokenyon.com/2007/08/03/action-and-satisfaction/">Action and Satisfaction</a> posted at <a href="http://www.tupelokenyon.com">Tupelo Kenyon</a></p>
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<p><strong>James Bishop</strong> presents <a href="http://www.findingoptimism.com/healthy-mind/anyone-know-why-its-called-the-idiot-box/">Anyone Know Why It’s Called the Idiot Box?</a> posted at <a href="http://www.findingoptimism.com">Finding Optimism</a>, saying, &#8220;If you are like me and have a mood disorder, then the emotional roller coaster that TV offers is unhelpful to say the least.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Shaula Evans</strong> presents <a href="http://agonist.org/ian_welsh/20070806/my_friend_peter">My Friend Peter</a> posted at <a href="http://agonist.org">The Agonist</a>, saying, &#8220;I lived with Peter for 3 years and when I left he told me “my family has a custom where ever year we pick out someone to help and do so for the entire year, and sometimes longer. We know we do harm all the time. It’s not balance. But we hope it makes up.”&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Corinne Edwards</strong> presents <a href="http://www.personal-growth-with-corinne-edwards.com/widow/">WIDOW</a> posted at <a href="http://www.personal-growth-with-corinne-edwards.com">Personal Growth with Corinne Edwards</a>saying, &#8220;It is a real journey by a real person &#8211; not a psychololgist. As a new widow, there were few guidelines that were dedicated to the everydayness of adjusting to being alone in mid life.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Raymond David Salas</strong> presents <a href="http://zenchillcom.blogspot.com/2007/08/how-to-manifest-your-desires-faster.html">How to Manifest Your Desires Faster</a> posted at <a href="http://zenchillcom.blogspot.com/">ZenChill.com Power Tools Blog</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Alex Blackwell</strong> presents <a href="http://thenext45years.blogspot.com/2007/08/success-takes-faith.html">Success takes faith</a> posted at <a href="http://thenext45years.blogspot.com/">The Next 45 Years</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Will Mitchell</strong> presents <a href="http://sparkedblog.com/?p=6">6 Steps to Training your Subconscious Mind</a> posted at <a href="http://sparkedblog.com">www.SparkedBlog.com</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>John Hill</strong> presents <a href="http://www.universeofsuccess.com/how-to-be-happy.html">How to Be Happy</a> posted at <a href="http://www.universeofsuccess.com">Universe Of Success</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Will Mitchell</strong> presents <a href="http://sparkedblog.com/?p=7">Quotes in History Referencing The Law of Attraction</a> posted at <a href="http://sparkedblog.com">www.SparkedBlog.com</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Golbguru</strong> presents <a href="http://www.thetaoofmakingmoney.com/2007/07/27/448.html">10 Simple Steps To Becoming Wealthy</a> posted at <a href="http://www.thetaoofmakingmoney.com">Money, Matter, and More Musings</a>, saying, &#8220;Beauty is in the simplicity. All you need to do is a develop a good savings habit, and you will be rich in time to come.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Nneka</strong> presents <a href="http://www.balancedlifecenter.com/244-meditation-qa-how-to-meditate">Meditation Q&amp;A: How Do You Meditate?</a> posted at <a href="http://www.balancedlifecenter.com/blog">Balanced Life Center</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>FitBuff</strong> presents <a href="http://www.fitbuff.com/new-york-jets-listen-to-mozart-on-the-football-field/">New York Jets Listen to Mozart on the Football Field</a> posted at <a href="http://www.fitbuff.com">FitBuff.com&#8217;s Total Mind and Body Fitness Blog</a>, saying, &#8220;This is a very interesting article on &#8220;The Mozart Effect&#8221;, which many believe can increase your intelligence and mental stability, not to mention the long-standing notion that any classical music can improve your mood and put you in a state of calmness and relaxation.&#8221;</p>
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		<title>My Mum&#8217;s Birthday</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 28 Jul 2007 07:08:35 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[It is my mum&#8217;s birthday today, so she is staying with me and I remain so proud of the way she has coped since Dad died. Her health has not been wonderful but she is really trying to piece together a new life. She is 77 today and could so easily have said &#8220;I have nothing left to live for&#8221;. However she has

Joined a local village group that meets each Thursday for coffee.
Started to play bowls.
Been on a couple of cruises &#8211; Dad didn&#8217;t really like the idea of cruises so this is a real treat for her.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It is my mum&#8217;s birthday today, so she is staying with me and I remain so proud of the way she has coped since Dad died. Her health has not been wonderful but she is really trying to piece together a new life. She is 77 today and could so easily have said &#8220;I have nothing left to live for&#8221;. However she has</p>
<ul>
<li>Joined a local village group that meets each Thursday for coffee.</li>
<li>Started to play bowls.</li>
<li>Been on a couple of cruises &#8211; Dad didn&#8217;t really like the idea of cruises so this is a real treat for her.</li>
<li>Learned to do things around the house, including driving the ride on lawn mower!</li>
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<p>She still has tears in her eyes when we talk about Dad, but she has learned to enjoy a very different life. I asked her how<a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/wp-admin/upload.php?style=inline&amp;tab=browse-all&amp;post_id=-1185605975&amp;_wpnonce=1f6f3dffd0&amp;ID=299&amp;action=view&amp;paged=2" id="file-link-299" title="roses.jpg" class="file-link image"> 			 <img src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2006/12/roses.thumbnail.jpg" title="roses.jpg" alt="roses.jpg" align="right" /></a> she has found the strength.  She shared 2 reasons which I think may help others.</p>
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<li>She saw the effect of losing Dad on my sister and I. She wants to live as long as possible to help us through and also to watch over us.</li>
<li>Dad loved her very much and would have wanted, indeed trusted that she would live on&#8230;.she feels that he is willing her each day.</li>
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		<title>Courage to Love</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 24 Jul 2007 16:57:33 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I am reading a book about Eleanor Roosevelt at the moment and there are some very powerful quotations which I wanted to share with you.
&#8220;It takes courage to love, but pain through love is the purifying fire which those who love generously know.&#8221;
&#8220;We are happy together &#38; strong relationships have to grow deep roots. We&#8217;re growing them now, partly because we are separated, the foliage and the flowers will come somehow I&#8217;m sure of it&#8230;.Love is a queer thing, it hurts but it gives you so much in return.&#8221;
&#8220;No one can make you feel inferior without your consent&#8221;
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I am reading a book about Eleanor Roosevelt at the moment and there are some very powerful quotations which I wanted to share with you.</p>
<p>&#8220;It takes courage to love, but pain through love is the purifying fire which those who love generously know.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;We are happy together &amp; strong relationships have to grow deep roots. We&#8217;re growing them now, partly because we are separated, the foliage and the flowers will come somehow I&#8217;m sure of it&#8230;.Love is a queer thing, it hurts but it gives you so much in return.&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;No one can make you feel inferior without your consent&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;With the new day comes strength and new thoughts&#8221;</p>
<p>&#8220;People grow through experience if they meet life honestly and courageously. This is how character is built!</p>
<p>Some powerful thoughts to help you build your future&#8230;.</p>
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		<title>Reading Support for Bereavement</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 07 Jul 2007 12:14:34 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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1) Understanding that I was not alone, that people did understand how I felt.
2) Tips on how to cope with depression, how to move forward, how to cope with grief. 			 
3) Support network of friends
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p align="left">When we suffer grief, we need support &#8211; I know that I was desperate to &#8220;find the answer&#8221; to feeling better, finding ways of making it through that dark tunnel. I came across this list of <a href="http://www.after-death.com/resources/publicat.htm">bereavement publications</a> that may help you come to terms with the death. For me reading was helpful for 3 reasons<a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/wp-admin/upload.php?style=inline&amp;tab=browse-all&amp;post_id=-1183810033&amp;_wpnonce=b17012ecdb&amp;ID=169&amp;action=view&amp;paged=3" id="file-link-169" title="pensandbooks.jpg" class="file-link image"><img src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2006/11/pensandbooks.thumbnail.jpg" title="pensandbooks.jpg" alt="pensandbooks.jpg" align="right" /></a></p>
<p>1) Understanding that I was not alone, that people did understand how I felt.</p>
<p>2) Tips on how to cope with depression, how to move forward, how to cope with grief.<a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/wp-admin/upload.php?style=inline&amp;tab=browse-all&amp;post_id=-1183810033&amp;_wpnonce=b17012ecdb&amp;ID=169&amp;action=view&amp;paged=3" id="file-link-169" title="pensandbooks.jpg" class="file-link image"> 			 </a></p>
<p>3) Support network of friends</p>
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		<title>Carnival of Positive Thinking</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jul 2007 17:45:01 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Apologies for not posting this yesterday but there was a server problem at Blog Carnival. Anyway here are this weeks posts to help you be positive about the future.

edithyeung presents I Have Confidence posted at Edith Yeung.Com:  Dream.  Think.  Act..

Tupelo Kenyon presents Belief Systems vs. Knowing posted at Tupelo Kenyon, saying, &#8220;Celebrate life through the exploration of believing vs. knowing. To help soothe the pain of losing someone special in your life, please listen to this song &#8211; &#8220;All That We Take With Us&#8221; (is the love we gave away.) http://www.somemusicmatters.com/DescHB.html#Anchor3&#8243;
Anna presents How to See Opportunity at [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Apologies for not posting this yesterday but there was a server problem at Blog Carnival. Anyway here are this weeks posts to help you be positive about the future.<br />
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<p><strong>edithyeung</strong> presents <a href="http://www.edithyeung.com/2007/06/24/i-have-confidence">I Have Confidence</a> posted at <a href="http://www.edithyeung.com">Edith Yeung.Com:  Dream.  Think.  Act.</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Tupelo Kenyon</strong> presents <a href="http://www.tupelokenyon.com/2007/06/08/belief-systems-vs-knowing/">Belief Systems vs. Knowing</a> posted at <a href="http://www.tupelokenyon.com">Tupelo Kenyon</a>, saying, &#8220;Celebrate life through the exploration of believing vs. knowing. To help soothe the pain of losing someone special in your life, please listen to this song &#8211; &#8220;All That We Take With Us&#8221; (is the love we gave away.) http://www.somemusicmatters.com/DescHB.html#Anchor3&#8243;</p>
<p><strong>Anna</strong> presents <a href="http://theengagingbrand.typepad.com/the_engaging_brand_/2007/06/how-to-see-oppo.html">How to See Opportunity</a> at <a href="http://theengagingbrand.typepad.com">The Engaging Brand </a></p>
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<p><strong>Sean LeMay</strong> presents <a href="http://www.seanlemay.com/?p=18">Use Military Tactics to Reach Your Dreams</a>posted at <a href="http://www.seanlemay.com">Sean LeMay</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>John Hill</strong> presents <a href="http://www.attractingpeople.com/how-to-start-a-conversation.html">How to Start a Conversation</a> posted at <a href="http://www.attractingpeople.com">Attracting People.com</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>John Hill</strong> presents <a href="http://www.universeofsuccess.com/dealing-with-anxiety.html">Dealing with Anxiety</a> posted at <a href="http://www.universeofsuccess.com">Universe Of Success</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Richard Ingersoll</strong> presents <a href="http://applying-the-law-of-attraction.blogspot.com/2007/06/past-life-regression-its-as-safe-as.html">Past Life Regression it&#8217;s as Safe as Meditation</a> posted at <a href="http://applying-the-law-of-attraction.blogspot.com/">Applying the Law of Attraction</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Alex Blackwell</strong> presents <a href="http://thenext45years.blogspot.com/2007/06/you-get-out-of-it-what-you-put-into-it.html">You get out of it what you put into it</a> posted at <a href="http://thenext45years.blogspot.com/">The Next 45 Years</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>James Bishop</strong> presents <a href="http://www.findingoptimism.com/?p=65">8 Tips to Get Off the Couch and Into Action</a> posted at <a href="http://www.findingoptimism.com">Finding Optimism</a>, saying, &#8220;The problem with exercise is that it&#8217;s very hard to start. If you&#8217;re like me you have a treadmill, a bike, or some kind of gym apparatus collecting dust in a corner.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Shamelle</strong> presents <a href="http://enhancelifethinktank.blogspot.com/2007/06/i-do-but-i-dont-decide-to-be-decisive.html">I do (But…. I don&#8217;t): Decide To Be Decisive</a> posted at <a href="http://enhancelifethinktank.blogspot.com/">Enhance Life</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Raymond David Salas</strong> presents <a href="http://zenchillcom.blogspot.com/2007/06/power-of-empowering-beliefs.html">The Power of Empowering Beliefs</a> posted at <a href="http://zenchillcom.blogspot.com/">ZenChill.com Power Tools Blog</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Susan Velez</strong> presents <a href="http://susanvlz.blogspot.com/2007/06/persistence-leads-to-achievement.html">Persistence Leads To Achievement</a> posted at <a href="http://susanvlz.blogspot.com/">The Secret To Life</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Conan Stevens</strong> presents <a href="http://www.conanstevens.com/motivation-inspiration-success/personal-development/lifestyle-=-time--money.html"><br />
Lifestyle = Time + Money</a> posted at <a href="http://www.conanstevens.com">Conan Stevens Online</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Ruby</strong> presents <a href="http://www.adviceandrants.com/11-ways-to-stop-feeling-sad-how-to-be-happy-right-now/">11 Ways to Stop Feeling Sad: How to Be Happy Right Now</a> posted at <a href="http://www.adviceandrants.com">Advice and Rants</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Mark25</strong> presents <a href="http://www.hotstrategies.com/a-postive-attitude-goes-a-long-way/">A Postive Attitude Goes a Long Way</a> posted at <a href="http://www.hotstrategies.com">HotStrategies.com</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Marc and Angel</strong> presents <a href="http://www.marcandangel.com/2007/05/21/the-two-most-important-practices-in-life/">The Two Most Important Practices in Life | Marc and Angel</a> posted at <a href="http://www.marcandangel.com">Marc and Angel</a></p>
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<p><strong>Arin Vahanian</strong> presents <a href="http://blog.super-state.com/2007/06/28/stick-to-your-purpose--and-improve-the-world-too.aspx">Stick to your purpose &#8211; and improve the world too!</a> posted at <a href="http://blog.super-state.com">Super State</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>CA</strong> presents <a href="http://www.iqi-sm.com/blog/index.php/2007/06/29/motivation/when-did-you-know-you-were-committed/">When did you know you were committed</a> posted at <a href="http://www.iqi-sm.com/blog">Atlantic Canada&#8217;s Small Business Blog</a>, saying, &#8220;Here is Phil Johnson’s inspiring story in his own words and how commitment changed his life&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Joey Rosario</strong> presents <a href="http://www.joefiro.com/the-more-you-know-the-slower-you-grow/">The More You Know, The Slower You Grow</a> posted at <a href="http://www.joefiro.com">Own Your Life With Joey Rosario</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Moses E. Miles III</strong> presents <a href="http://www.mosesedwardmilesiii.com/4-questions-for-your-life/">4 Questions for Your Life</a> posted at <a href="http://www.mosesedwardmilesiii.com">Three Sticks</a>, saying, &#8220;4 essential questions that will determine the quality and outcome of your life&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Top Tip from a Widows Quest Reader</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 23 Jun 2007 07:15:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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Joan shares this tip with us all
&#8220;My husband died last year and the grief has been overwhelming. One tip I would give people, is to keep one or two items visibly on show, but don&#8217;t make the house a shrine. I did and all that brought was depression. I now have 3 photo&#8217;s and everything else is stored away &#8211; there if I want to look. This has helped me start to come to terms with his death. Before 			  when [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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<p>Joan shares this tip with us all</p>
<p>&#8220;My husband died last year and the grief has been overwhelming. One tip I would give people, is to keep one or two items<a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/wp-admin/upload.php?style=inline&amp;tab=browse-all&amp;post_id=-1182582539&amp;_wpnonce=65ebd5fee2&amp;ID=149&amp;action=view&amp;paged=4" id="file-link-149" title="ringsinpetals1.jpg" class="file-link image"><img src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2006/10/ringsinpetals1.thumbnail.jpg" title="ringsinpetals1.jpg" alt="ringsinpetals1.jpg" align="right" /></a> visibly on show, but don&#8217;t make the house a shrine. I did and all that brought was depression. I now have 3 photo&#8217;s and everything else is stored away &#8211; there if I want to look. This has helped me start to come to terms with his death. Before<a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/wp-admin/upload.php?style=inline&amp;tab=browse-all&amp;post_id=-1182582539&amp;_wpnonce=65ebd5fee2&amp;ID=149&amp;action=view&amp;paged=4" id="file-link-149" title="ringsinpetals1.jpg" class="file-link image"> 			 </a> when it was a shrine, I just fell further and further into a depression. The shrine reminded me of the death. Now the photo&#8217;s and the memories remind me of his life&#8221;</p>
<p>Joan thanks so much and if others people want to share ideas just let me know</p>
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		<title>Carnival of Positive Thinking</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 17 Jun 2007 09:03:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I love posting this Carnival each Sunday. We have all suffered change and dealing with that change needs many self development techniques. Here are some great articles on how you can take back control of your life and ensure that you find happiness and personal serenity.
Conan Stevens presents Movie Extras, What To Do At The Film Set posted at Conan Stevens Online, saying, &#8220;Real world application of positive attitudes and personal development&#8221;

ananga presents 
What Chronic Illness Taught me about Productivity posted at Ananga Sivyer&#8217;s Living by Design Blog.

Debra Moorhead presents The Value of Persistenceposted at Debra Moorhead.com.

Graciel Evenstar presents While [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I love posting this Carnival each Sunday. We have all suffered change and dealing with that change needs many self development techniques. Here are some great articles on how you can take back control of your life and ensure that you find happiness and personal serenity.<!-- Carnival Submission --></p>
<p><strong>Conan Stevens</strong> presents <a href="http://www.conanstevens.com/acting-movies-tv-film/tall-actor-blog/movie-extras-what-to-do-at-the-film-set.html">Movie Extras, What To Do At The Film Set</a> posted at <a href="http://www.conanstevens.com">Conan Stevens Online</a>, saying, &#8220;Real world application of positive attitudes and personal development&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>ananga</strong> presents <a href="http://ananga.squarespace.com/ananga-living-by-design-blog/2007/6/11/what-chronic-illness-taught-me-about-productivity.html"><br />
What Chronic Illness Taught me about Productivity</a> posted at <a href="http://ananga.squarespace.com/ananga-living-by-design-blog">Ananga Sivyer&#8217;s Living by Design Blog</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Debra Moorhead</strong> presents <a href="http://www.debramoorhead.com/blog/?p=202">The Value of Persistence</a>posted at <a href="http://www.debramoorhead.com/blog">Debra Moorhead.com</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Graciel Evenstar</strong> presents <a href="http://evenstar-art.blogspot.com/2007/05/while-there-is-still-time.html">While There Is Still Time</a> posted at <a href="http://evenstar-art.blogspot.com/">Evenstar Art</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Nahush Khubalkar</strong> presents <a href="http://successmantras.blogspot.com/2007/06/visualize-your-way-to-success.html">Visualize Your Way to Success</a> posted at <a href="http://successmantras.blogspot.com/">Success Mantras</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Andrew Michaels</strong> presents <a href="http://lifecrafting.net/2007/06/12/your-body-on-life-and-your-mind-on-your-body/">Your Body On Life, And Your Mind On Your Body</a> posted at <a href="http://lifecrafting.net">Lifecrafting</a>, saying, &#8220;A properly maintained body is critical to the wellness of the mind, and your success in the physical world.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Craig Harper</strong> presents <a href="http://craigharper.com.au/2007/06/real-secret-of-success.html">The REAL SECRET of Success.</a> posted at <a href="http://craigharper.com.au/index.htm">Renovate your life with Craig</a></p>
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<p><strong>John Hill</strong> presents <a href="http://www.universeofsuccess.com/how-to-stop-worrying.html">How to Stop Worrying</a> posted at <a href="http://www.universeofsuccess.com">Universe Of Success</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>John Hill</strong> presents <a href="http://www.attractingpeople.com/attracting-friends.html">Attracting Friends</a> posted at <a href="http://www.attractingpeople.com">Attracting People.com</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>FitBuff</strong> presents <a href="http://www.fitbuff.com/blog/2007/06/13/how-i-lifted-50-pounds-with-my-mind/">How I Lifted 50 Pounds with My Mind</a> posted at <a href="http://www.fitbuff.com/blog">FitBuff.com&#8217;s Total Mind and Body Fitness Blog</a>, saying, &#8220;Fascinating story of a firsthand experience of &#8220;mind over matter&#8221; &#8212; 50&#215;25= 1,250 pounds of it, to be exact!&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Raymond David Salas</strong> presents <a href="http://zenchillcom.blogspot.com/2007/06/power-of-letting-go.html">The Power of Letting Go</a> posted at <a href="http://zenchillcom.blogspot.com/">ZenChill.com Power Tools Blog</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>James Bishop</strong> presents <a href="http://www.findingoptimism.com/?p=56">How Well Do You Cope With Stress?</a> posted at <a href="http://www.findingoptimism.com">Finding Optimism</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Karen Lynch</strong> presents <a href="http://www.livethepower.com/blog/224/the-gift-of-selfishness/">The Gift of Selfishness</a> posted at <a href="http://www.livethepower.com/blog">LivethePower</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Alex Blackwell</strong> presents <a href="http://thenext45years.blogspot.com/2007/06/what-makes-relationship-great.html">What Makes a Relationship Great?</a>posted at <a href="http://thenext45years.blogspot.com/">The Next 45 Years</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Golbguru</strong> presents <a href="http://www.thetaoofmakingmoney.com/2007/05/30/382.html">Simplify Your Life To Get Ahead</a> posted at <a href="http://www.thetaoofmakingmoney.com">Money, Matter, and More Musings</a>, saying, &#8220;A simple advice for a simple and more productive life.&#8221;</p>
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<p>That concludes this edition.  Submit your blog article to the next edition of<strong> positive thinking </strong>using our<br />
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		<title>Pain is just a thought</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 19 Feb 2007 18:14:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In yesterdays positive thinking carnival there was a post from Walt on Pain is a Highly Concentrated Thought. This had a lasting effect on me especially the quote &#8220;The solution to that would be to not think so much on a bad experience, but rather if the thought comes up, think about what good it did for you.&#8221; The post goes on to say
&#8220;Remember that time when you had a headache or your foot hurt? It hurt and hurt mainly due to your concentration on the pain. But, when your focus and attention shifted to something else, the more you [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In yesterdays <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/lets-start-the-week-in-a-positive-way/">positive thinking carnival</a> there was a post from Walt on <a href="http://waltnation.com/2007/02/13/pain-is-a-highly-concentrated-thought/">Pain is a Highly Concentrated Thought</a>. This had a lasting effect on me especially the quote &#8220;The solution to that would be to not think so much on a bad experience, but rather if the thought comes up, think about what good it did for you.&#8221; The post goes on to say</p>
<p><strong>&#8220;Remember that time when you had a headache or your foot hurt? It hurt and hurt mainly due to your concentration on the pain. But, when your focus and attention shifted to something else, the more you had your attention away from your pain, the less pain you felt!&#8221;</strong></p>
<p>At first I thought&#8230;.uhm hitting your foot is hardly the same as losing your loved one&#8230;and then as I started to think more about it, it is true. Look through my blog posting, it is about filling that void in your life with other things to look forward to, in this context an opportunity to move the focus of your pain onto something that creates enjoyment. As hard as it seems, the post is right. We can concentrate too hard on the pain that we are feeling and not enough on something that can create a diversion, a moment of relief. Maybe we don&#8217;t like to think of it like that, but in reality we all need to find a focus&#8230;..</p>
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		<title>Let&#8217;s Start the Week in a Positive Way!</title>
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		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[T  Welcome to the February 18, 2007 edition of positive thinking.
ananga presents Moments of Tranquility &#8211; Breath Counting posted at Answers from Ayurveda, saying, &#8220;Relaxation and meditation exercise for inviting calm &#8211; with free MP3 instructions and meditation music&#8221;
Deb Serani presents The Broken Heart Syndrome: AKA Stress Cardiomyopathy posted at Dr. Deborah Serani, saying, &#8220;This post looks at Broken Heart Syndrome&#8221;
Debra Moorhead presents What Would Your Future Self Be Doing Right Now? posted at Debra Moorhead.com.
Matthew Paulson presents Why Focused Intensity Is All You Need posted at Getting Green.
Nneka presents Waiting On The World To Change posted at Balanced [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>T<!-- InstaCarnival Beta Draft HTML for Carnival Edition http://blogcarnival.com/bc/spreview_8542.html -->  <!-- EDIT THIS: carnival introduction begins with this paragraph: -->Welcome to the February 18, 2007 edition of positive thinking.</p>
<p><!-- Carnival Submission --><strong>ananga</strong> presents <a href="http://ananga.squarespace.com/living-by-design-blog/2007/2/11/moments-of-tranquility-breath-counting.html">Moments of Tranquility &#8211; Breath Counting</a> posted at <a href="http://www.ananga.squarespace.com">Answers from Ayurveda</a>, saying, &#8220;Relaxation and meditation exercise for inviting calm &#8211; with free MP3 instructions and meditation music&#8221;</p>
<p><!-- Carnival Submission --><strong>Deb Serani</strong> presents <a href="http://drdeborahserani.blogspot.com/2007/02/broken-heart-syndrome-aka-stress.html">The Broken Heart Syndrome: AKA Stress Cardiomyopathy</a> posted at <a href="http://drdeborahserani.blogspot.com/index.html">Dr. Deborah Serani</a>, saying, &#8220;This post looks at Broken Heart Syndrome&#8221;</p>
<p><!-- Carnival Submission --><strong>Debra Moorhead</strong> presents <a href="http://www.debramoorhead.com/blog/?p=141">What Would Your Future Self Be Doing Right Now?</a> posted at <a href="http://www.debramoorhead.com/blog">Debra Moorhead.com</a>.</p>
<p><!-- Carnival Submission --><strong>Matthew Paulson</strong> presents <a href="http://getting-green.blogspot.com/2007/01/your-money-why-focused-intensity-is-all.html">Why Focused Intensity Is All You Need</a> posted at <a href="http://getting-green.blogspot.com/index.html">Getting Green</a>.</p>
<p><!-- Carnival Submission --><strong>Nneka</strong> presents <a href="http://www.balancedlifecenter.com/170-waiting-on-the-world-to-change/">Waiting On The World To Change</a> posted at <a href="http://www.balancedlifecenter.com/blog">Balanced Life Center</a>.</p>
<p><!-- Carnival Submission --><strong>Shamelle</strong> presents <a href="http://enhancelifethinktank.blogspot.com/2007/02/how-to-easily-and-lazily-make-your.html">How To Easily (and Lazily!) Make Your Loved One Feel Special</a> posted at <a href="http://enhancelifethinktank.blogspot.com/index.html">Enhance Life</a>.</p>
<p><strong>MabelandHarry</strong> presents <a href="http://mabelandharry.blogspot.com/2007/02/handling-pressure.html">Handling Pressure</a> posted at <a href="http://mabelandharry.blogspot.com">MabelandHarry </a></p>
<p><!-- Carnival Submission --><strong>Talia Mana</strong> presents <a href="http://taliamana.blogspot.com/2007/02/can-blogging-help-reduce-depression.html">Can Blogging reduce Depression?</a> posted at <a href="http://taliamana.blogspot.com/index.html">Emotional Well-Being</a>, saying, &#8220;Talia interviews new blogger Therese Borchard on depression and anxiety, her writing, spirituality, motherhood and how blogging is helping her stay sane.&#8221;</p>
<p><!-- Carnival Submission --><strong>Walt</strong> presents <a href="http://waltnation.com/2007/02/13/pain-is-a-highly-concentrated-thought/">Pain is a Highly Concentrated Thought</a> posted at <a href="http://waltnation.com">Walt Nation!</a>.</p>
<p><!-- Carnival Submission --><strong>Michael Cavano</strong> presents <a href="http://www.subsunrecords.com/blog/2007/02/follow-your-purpose/">Follow Your Purpose</a> posted at <a href="http://www.subsunrecords.com/blog">SubSun Records . com</a>.</p>
<p><!-- Carnival Submission --><strong> presents <a href="http://www.optimistlab.com/index.php/2007/02/14/the-best-way-to-help-people/">The Best Way to Help People</a> posted at <a href="http://www.optimistlab.com">OptmistLab.com</a>, saying, &#8220;The most empowering thing you can ever do for someone is to honor their particular journey. </strong></p>
<p><strong>  <!-- Carnival Submission --> </strong><strong> </strong><strong>Hueina Su</strong> presents <a href="http://blog.beyondhorizoncoaching.com/2007/02/celebrating-you-leading-lady-of-your.html">Celebrating YOU: The Leading Lady of Your Show</a> posted at <a href="http://blog.beyondhorizoncoaching.com/index.html">Intensive Care for the Nurturer&#8217;s Soul</a>, saying, &#8220;Remember, you are the Leading Lady and director of your own show. You are in charge and fully responsible for how your show turns out to be. If your show is competing for the Academy Award of Life, which categories will it be nominated? Which awards will you win?&#8221; </p>
<p><strong>  <!-- Carnival Submission --> </strong><strong> </strong><strong>Craig Harper</strong> presents <a href="http://www.craigharper.com.au/2007/02/so-youve-decided-to-get-in-shape-again.html">So, You&#8217;ve Decided to Get in Shape&#8230;.. Again (Part One)</a> posted at <a href="http://craigharper.com.au/index.htm">Renovate your life with Craig</a>, saying, &#8220;What if losing weight ain&#8217;t that complex? </p>
<p><strong>  <!-- Carnival Submission --> </strong><strong> </strong><strong>Barbra Sundquist</strong> presents <a href="http://www.homebusinesswiz.com/2007/02/who_pushes_your_buttons.html">Who Pushes Your Buttons?</a> posted at <a href="http://www.homebusinesswiz.com/">HomeBusinessWiz</a>. </p>
<p><strong>  <!-- Carnival Submission --> </strong><strong> </strong><strong>Barbra Sundquist</strong> presents <a href="http://www.welcomejoy.com/2007/01/tied_to_joywith_a_simple_piece.html">Tied to Joy…With A Simple Piece of String</a> posted at <a href="http://www.welcomejoy.com/">WelcomeJoy.com</a>. </p>
<p><strong>  <!-- Carnival Submission --> </strong><strong> </strong><strong>Maria Yu</strong> presents <a href="http://www.art-life-spirit.com/2007/02/11/monet-and-eternal-expression/">Monet and Eternal Expression</a> posted at <a href="http://www.art-life-spirit.com">Life</a>. </p>
<p><strong>  <!-- Carnival Submission --> </strong><strong> </strong><strong>Christine Kane</strong> presents <a href="http://christinekane.com/blog/2007/02/06/it-might-be-time-to-take-a-risk-if/">It Might Be Time to Take a Risk if…</a> posted at <a href="http://christinekane.com/blog">Christine Kane</a>. </p>
<p><strong>  <!-- Carnival Submission --> </strong><strong> </strong><strong>Moses E. Miles III</strong> presents <a href="http://www.mosesedwardmilesiii.com/how-to-start-your-day-off-right/">How to Start Your Day off Right</a> posted at <a href="http://www.mosesedwardmilesiii.com">Three Sticks &#8211; www.mosesedwardmilesiii.com &#8211; Empowering, Teaching, Healing</a>. </p>
<p><strong>  <!-- Carnival Submission --> </strong><strong> </strong><strong>Reb Chaim HaQoton</strong> presents <a href="http://rchaimqoton.blogspot.com/2007/02/tithes-and-charities.html">Tithes and Charities</a> posted at <a href="http://rchaimqoton.blogspot.com/index.html">Reb HaQoton</a>. </p>
<p><strong>  <!-- Carnival Submission --> </strong><strong> </strong><strong>Raymond David Salas</strong> presents <a href="http://zenchillcom.blogspot.com/2007/02/how-to-solve-all-of-your-problems.html">How to Solve All of Your Problems</a> posted at <a href="http://zenchillcom.blogspot.com">ZenChill.com &#8211; Power Tools for Mind, Body, and Soul</a>. </p>
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