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		<title>Can we change our life?</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Jul 2009 18:18:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Sometimes it feels as though everything is out of our control, sometimes we feel that life is controlling us&#8230;rather than us controlling our life. But you know we can change our life, we can the way people look at us and react to us.

We can pull our shoulders back and our chin up&#8230;..we can walk as though we embrace life rather than suffer life.
We can smile at people when we are out and about &#8211; you will be amazed how people smile back and how your mood lifts.
We can walk towards life rather than sitting fearing life.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Sometimes it feels as though everything is out of our control, sometimes we feel that <strong>life is controlling us</strong>&#8230;rather than us controlling our life. But you know we can <strong>change our life</strong>, we can the way people look at us and react to us.</p>
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<li>We can pull our shoulders back and our chin up&#8230;..we can walk as though we embrace life rather than suffer life.</li>
<li>We can smile at people when we are out and about &#8211; you will be amazed how people smile back and how your mood lifts.</li>
<li>We can walk towards life rather than sitting fearing life.</li>
<li>We can make a point of complimenting others and boosting their self esteem.<img class="alignright size-medium wp-image-1219" src="http://www.widowsquest.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/tips-226x300.jpg" alt="tips" width="106" height="141" /></li>
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<p>It was <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eleanor_Roosevelt">Eleanor Roosevelt</a> who said &#8220;<strong>When you cease to make a contribution you begin to die</strong>&#8221; and if we are to start to live again then we need to increase our contribution to the world around us.</p>
<p>Gosh all this sounds so easy, of course it isn&#8217;t&#8230;.but I do believe the more we <strong>contribute to life then the more life pays back with enjoyment.</strong></p>
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		<title>Carnival of Positive Thinking</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Jul 2008 18:25:40 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Carnival of Positive Thinking]]></category>
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		<description><![CDATA[What a week! I have felt quite strong and I hope my blog writing has helped you in some way to cope with both your bereavement and your grief. As widows and widowers we need to share, we need to help each other&#8230;.so each Sunday I post articles that will help us cope with our depression and turn our life around
Anna presents There is always a positive, if you look for it! posted at The Engaging Brand 

Lana presents Journey to Love! posted at Conscious Life Conscious RelationshipChange a belief or..accept what is.The mind is its own place, and of [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What a week! I have felt quite strong and I hope my blog writing has helped you in some way to cope with both your bereavement and your grief. As widows and widowers we need to share, we need to help each other&#8230;.so each Sunday I post articles that will help us cope with our depression and turn our life around</p>
<p><strong>Anna</strong> presents <a href="http://theengagingbrand.typepad.com/the_engaging_brand_/2008/07/there-is-always.html">There is always a positive, if you look for it!</a> posted at <a href="http://www.theengagingbrand.com">The Engaging Brand </a></p>
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<p><strong>Lana</strong> presents <a href="http://www.fetishself.com/Beliefs3.html">Journey to Love!</a> posted at <a href="http://www.fetishself.com/">Conscious Life Conscious Relationship</a>Change a belief or..accept what is.The mind is its own place, and of itself can make a heaven of hell, a hell of heaven. (Zen)</p>
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<p><strong>GP</strong> presents <a href="http://fvclassic.wordpress.com/2008/07/20/horses-montanas-glamour-animal/">Horses Montana&#8217;s Glamour Animal</a> posted at <a href="http://fvclassic.wordpress.com">Innstyle Montana- Come on Inn</a>, saying, &#8220;Horses&#8230; while they may montana&#8217;s glamour animal, they are incredible  creatures for heart and soul&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Dereck</strong> presents <a href="http://www.iwillnotdie.com/a-guide-for-increasing-your-creativity/">A guide for increasing your creativity</a> posted at <a href="http://www.iwillnotdie.com">I Will Not Die</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Louise Manning</strong> presents <a href="http://thehumanimprint.typepad.com/the_human_imprint/2008/07/learning-from-b.html">Learning from being a volunteer</a> posted at <a href="http://thehumanimprint.typepad.com/the_human_imprint/">The Human Imprint</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Ari Koinuma</strong> presents <a href="http://ourbestversion.com/2008/07/how-i-healed-my-damaged-self-esteem/">How I Healed My Damaged Self-Esteem</a> posted at <a href="http://ourbestversion.com">Ari Koinuma</a>, saying, &#8220;I encountered an event that triggered a discovery and healing of where my own self-esteem was damaged. It’s a rather personal tale, but let me use it to illustrate how you can mend the foundation of your mind.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Frederic Premji</strong> presents <a href="http://www.ineedmotivation.com/blog/2008/07/discovering-your-lifes-purpose/">Discovering Your Life’s Purpose</a> posted at <a href="http://www.ineedmotivation.com/blog">BlogMotivation.com</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Jonathan</strong> presents <a href="http://betterrelationshipbuilder.com/2008/07/22/why-cant-i-get-along-with-someone/">Why Can?t I Get Along With Someone?</a> posted at <a href="http://betterrelationshipbuilder.com">Better Relationship Builder</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Chris Edgar</strong> presents <a href="http://www.purposepowercoaching.com/site/?p=122">Making Peace With Our Need To “Do More”</a> posted at <a href="http://www.purposepowercoaching.com/site">Purpose Power Coaching</a>, saying, &#8220;Many of us constantly suffer from a sense that we’re “not doing enough.”  Maybe we aren’t cranking out enough work; we aren’t exercising enough creativity; or something else.  This restless feeling makes it hard to relax or enjoy anything we do.  In this article, I talk about a way to transcend this need by seeing it for what it is &#8212; a discomfort in our bodies that our minds translate into problems with our lives.  When we focus all our attention on the physical sensation, and stop feeding it with negative thoughts, it begins to fade away.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Toni</strong> presents <a href="http://blogs.inquirer.net/happynest/2008/07/21/pockets-of-happiness/">Pockets of happiness</a> posted at <a href="http://blogs.inquirer.net/happynest">Happy Nest</a>, saying, &#8220;Having something you can easily turn to when in need of serenity is a good thing.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Anand</strong> presents <a href="http://www.ananddhillon.com/blog/2008/07/giving-your-power-away/">Giving Your Power Away</a> posted at <a href="http://www.ananddhillon.com">Anand Dhillon . com</a>, saying, &#8220;When we give our power away, we limit our ability to create the life we desire. Learn how you might be giving your power away and what you can do about it to take back control of your life.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Alex G</strong> presents <a href="http://www.authenticselfdiscovery.com/categories/courage_fear/001_master_fear.php">How to Master Your Fear</a> posted at <a href="http://www.authenticselfdiscovery.com">Authentic Self Discovery. Becoming Who You Want To Be.</a>, saying, &#8220;Are you controlling your fear? Or is your fear in control of you? Which way are you going to live your life? This is your moment of decision. Right now, right here. Your life can be different if you make that decision to change.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Phil B.</strong> presents <a href="http://www.philforhumanity.com/Pessimism_versus_Realism.html">Pessimism versus Realism &lt;&lt; Phil for Humanity</a> posted at <a href="http://www.philforhumanity.com">Phil for Humanity</a>, saying, &#8220;Realism is much closer to pessimism than it is to optimism.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Phil B.</strong> presents <a href="http://www.philforhumanity.com/The_Pros_and_Cons_of_Negativity.html">The Pros and Cons of Negativity</a> posted at <a href="http://www.philforhumanity.com">Phil for Humanity</a>, saying, &#8220;Some negativity can be good.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Jacob Share</strong> presents <a href="http://jobmob.co.il/blog/ways-to-deal-with-job-search-depression/">9 Ways To Deal With Job Search Depression</a> posted at <a href="http://jobmob.co.il">JobMob</a>, saying, &#8220;If you’re depressed over your job search like so many other job seekers, know that there many ways to get help, as psychotherapist Isabella Mori writes.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Shaula</strong> presents <a href="http://mileometer.net/2008/07/24/free-range-hugs/">Free Range Hugs make my day</a> posted at <a href="http://mileometer.net">Your Mileage May Vary</a>, saying, &#8220;When was the last time you gave or received an unexpected hug?&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Peter Murphy</strong> presents <a href="http://www.howtotalkwithconfidence.com/blog/how-to-build-lasting-self-confidence/">How To Build Lasting Self-Confidence</a> posted at <a href="http://www.howtotalkwithconfidence.com/blog">Communication Skills Power</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Sally Huss</strong> presents <a href="http://sallyhuss.typepad.com/sally_huss_addicted_to_ha/2008/07/new-friends-by-sally-huss.html">NEW FRIENDS by Sally Huss</a> posted at <a href="http://sallyhuss.typepad.com/sally_huss_addicted_to_ha/">Sally Huss &#8211; Addicted to Happiness!</a>, saying, &#8220;Sally Huss comments on her Happy Musing &#8220;New friends are as good as old friends when they are true friends.&#8221;"</p>
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<p><strong>Donald Latumahina</strong> presents <a href="http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2008/07/03/what-is-happiness-10-definitions-of-happiness/">What is Happiness? Definition of Happiness</a> posted at <a href="http://www.lifeoptimizer.org">Life Optimizer</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>axel</strong> presents <a href="http://axelg.com/learning-to-trust.html">Learning To Trust</a> posted at <a href="http://axelg.com">axel g</a>.</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 07 Jul 2008 20:26:13 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[We all need some help in overcoming our negative thoughts and grief so each week I put together articles people send on positive thinking. The more we read, the more we understand&#8230;the more we understand the more we will hopefully grow

CG Walters presents Walking on Water: Unlearning our limitations posted at Into the Mist, saying, &#8220;Sometimes the correction for a situation is not to do something more, but primarily to stop what we have being doing; rather than learning something new, relinquish limiting information that you have acquired along the way.&#8221;

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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We all need some help in overcoming our negative thoughts and grief so each week I put together articles people send on positive thinking. The more we read, the more we understand&#8230;the more we understand the more we will hopefully grow<br />
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<p><strong>CG Walters</strong> presents <a href="http://kathmandau.blogspot.com/2007/12/walking-on-water.html">Walking on Water: Unlearning our limitations</a> posted at <a href="http://kathmandau.blogspot.com/">Into the Mist</a>, saying, &#8220;Sometimes the correction for a situation is not to do something more, but primarily to stop what we have being doing; rather than learning something new, relinquish limiting information that you have acquired along the way.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>GP</strong> presents <a href="http://fvclassic.wordpress.com/2008/06/24/street-talk/">Street Talk</a> posted at <a href="http://fvclassic.wordpress.com">Innstyle Montana- Come on Inn</a>, saying, &#8220;straight talk to get your week started&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>jaffar abhamid</strong> presents <a href="http://escentre.blogspot.com/2008/05/positive-thinking-part-1-focusing-what.html">Positive thinking part 1: Focusing what is right</a> posted at <a href="http://escentre.blogspot.com/">Profit from turning problems into innovations</a>, saying, &#8220;It Is the first part of a 5-part series of positive thinking article. It is brought to you by Profit from turning problems into innovations blog. Please enjoy reading it. This part is about focusing on what&#8217;s right.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Ellen Landauer</strong> presents <a href="http://wwwhealthfreedomcoachcom.blogspot.com/search/label/dandelion%20recipes">Natural Alternative Health CoachingHealth Freedom Coaching: dandelion recipes</a> posted at <a href="http://wwwhealthfreedomcoachcom.blogspot.com/">Health Freedom Coaching</a>, saying, &#8220;Getting out in the sun and gathering your own awesomely nutritious wild greens is good for the soul (and ultimately, your body). Dandelions are still in season if you know where to find them. In this article I so enjoyed writing, some personal dandelion lore, unique recipes for dandelion greens and hints on where you can still find succulent leaves. As well, storage suggestions and ‘dandelion detox’ procedure to rinse away environmental toxins.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Chris Edgar</strong> presents <a href="http://www.purposepowercoaching.com/site/?p=126">How Our &#8220;Enmeshments&#8221; Hold Us Back</a> posted at <a href="http://www.purposepowercoaching.com/site">Purpose Power Coaching</a>, saying, &#8220;Many of us&#8211;consciously or otherwise&#8211;are influenced by a desire to please and avoid antagonizing people who no longer have authority over us, such as perhaps our parents or teachers. Psychologists say we’re “enmeshed” with someone when we see making sure we please them as more important than our own goals and wellbeing. As I describe in this article, I’ve found that just keeping ourselves aware of who we’re trying to please by holding ourselves back in life does much to free us from our enmeshments.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Anand</strong> presents <a href="http://www.ananddhillon.com/blog/2008/06/cognitive-distortions/">Cognitive Distortions</a> posted at <a href="http://www.ananddhillon.com">Anand Dhillon . com</a>, saying, &#8220;This article details several common distortions in our thinking patterns that lead to stress, anxiety and limitations. THe article also explains how to correct these cognitive distortions to live a happier, more productive life.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Avani</strong> presents <a href="http://www.avani-mehta.com/2008/06/09/top-10-demotivators/">Top 10 Demotivators</a> posted at <a href="http://www.avani-mehta.com">Avani-Mehta</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>David B. Bohl</strong> presents <a href="http://www.slowdownfast.com/blog/from-greedy-to-grateful-appreciating-what-you-have/">From Greedy to Grateful &#8211; Appreciating What You Have</a> posted at <a href="http://www.slowdownfast.com/blog">Slow Down Fast Today!</a>, saying, &#8220;We seem to quickly jump from one accomplishment to the next, from receiving good things that we enjoy only briefly to quickly pursuing the next good thing we want. We’re a pretty needy and wanting bunch of beings.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Sam</strong> presents <a href="http://www.surfersam.com/articles/building-self-esteem.htm">Building Self Esteem.  Skills for Self Improvement and Self Help ! Surfer Sam</a> posted at <a href="http://www.surfersam.com">Surfer Sam and Friends</a>, saying, &#8220;Do you truly know yourself? Do you like the person you see? Would you like to become a better person? Self-esteem is the value you place on yourself. It is your sense of personal worth, along with your confidence and your respect for yourself.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Alvaro Fernandez</strong> presents <a href="http://www.sharpbrains.com/blog/2008/07/05/pbs-secret-life-of-the-brain-and-neuroplasticity/">PBS: Secret Life of the Brain and Neuroplasticity</a> posted at <a href="http://www.sharpbrains.com/blog">SharpBrains: Your Window into the Brain Fitness Revolution</a>, saying, &#8220;A couple great PBS shows&#8221;</p>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 09 Jun 2008 19:11:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[A day later than normal but here are the collection of articles to help us think about life going forward. Articles to lift the depression and help us see a brighter future

garry presents Healthy Body, Healthy Mind, Will Help You to Become Successful. posted at 2 Million Dollar Bills.

Fruitpunch presents Living in your own world posted at Fruit Punch Diary.

Kathleen Gage presents The higher my expectations, the lower my serenity. posted at Daily Awareness, saying, &#8220;The higher my expectations, the lower my serenity. The first time I heard this from my spiritual mentor over 25 years ago, I had a [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>A day later than normal but here are the collection of articles to help us think about life going forward. Articles to lift the depression and help us see a brighter future</p>
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<p><strong>garry</strong> presents <a href="http://2milliondollarbills.com/archives/155">Healthy Body, Healthy Mind, Will Help You to Become Successful.</a> posted at <a href="http://2milliondollarbills.com">2 Million Dollar Bills</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Fruitpunch</strong> presents <a href="http://www.fruit-punch-diary.com/the-way-i-see-it/living-in-your-own-world-291/">Living in your own world</a> posted at <a href="http://www.fruit-punch-diary.com">Fruit Punch Diary</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Kathleen Gage</strong> presents <a href="http://www.dailyawareness.com/2008/05/the-higher-my-e.html">The higher my expectations, the lower my serenity.</a> posted at <a href="http://www.dailyawareness.com/">Daily Awareness</a>, saying, &#8220;The higher my expectations, the lower my serenity. The first time I heard this from my spiritual mentor over 25 years ago, I had a difficult time wrapping my mind around it. It was during a time I wanted to control things that seemed uncontrollable; like people, places and things. Life was in turmoil and I simply wanted some semblance of order. It seemed the more I tried to control and the more I expected people to comply to my way of doing things, the more out of control things became. The challenge for me was understanding the difference between expectancy and expectations.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Chris Edgar</strong> presents <a href="http://www.purposepowercoaching.com/site/?p=108">Who Is The &#8220;I&#8221; That Is &#8220;Worthless&#8221;?</a> posted at <a href="http://www.purposepowercoaching.com/site">Purpose Power Coaching</a>, saying, &#8220;Many of us harbor deep-seated negative ideas about ourselves that nothing we accomplish out in the world seems to shake.  What we don’t usually consider is who we’re talking about when we think something like “I am worthless.”  In other words, what do we really mean by “I”?  Regularly asking yourself this question can do much to give you a sense of peace and composure, and quiet your negative thinking.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Shirley</strong> presents <a href="http://brightdays.wordpress.com/2008/05/28/focus-on-the-good-things-%e2%80%93-10-tips/">Focus on The Good Things – 10 tips.</a> posted at <a href="http://brightdays.wordpress.com">Brighter Days for you and me!</a>, saying, &#8220;If you’re a seeker like me, someone constantly looking for ideas to improve their life and overall happiness, this tip was made for you.  Focusing your attention on the good things in your life is one of the best ways I have found to appreciate what you have, to find joy in your surroundings, and value the little delights we might otherwise overlook.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Gayathri Moosad</strong> presents <a href="http://www.gayathrimoosad.com/8-ways-to-embrace-spirituality-in-everyday-life-for-personality-development.html">8 ways to embrace Spirituality in everyday life for Personality Development</a> posted at <a href="http://www.gayathrimoosad.com">The Personality Development Workbook</a>, saying, &#8220;8 ways to embrace spirituality in everyday life and find true peace and meaning&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Alex Blackwell</strong> presents <a href="http://www.thenext45years.com/2008/05/30-true-things-you-need-to-know-now.html">30 True Things You Need to Know Now</a> posted at <a href="http://www.thenext45years.com">The Next 45 Years</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>axel</strong> presents <a href="http://axelg.com/kindness-is-happiness.html">Kindness Is Happiness</a> posted at <a href="http://axelg.com">axel g</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Phil B.</strong> presents <a href="http://www.philforhumanity.com/Too_Serious.html">Being Too Serious « Phil for Humanity</a> posted at <a href="http://www.philforhumanity.com">Phil for Humanity</a>, saying, &#8220;The risks of being way too serious.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Matt</strong> presents <a href="http://www.faceyourfork.com/2008/06/discovering-your-top-life-values/">Discovering Your Top Life Values</a> posted at <a href="http://www.faceyourfork.com">Face Your Fork</a>, saying, &#8220;By choosing to analyze a value such as &#8220;love&#8221; and then act out what that value truly means to you, you can literally change your state from being sad and apathetic to loving and compassionate.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Ivy and Amanda Preston</strong> presents <a href="http://www.self-improvement-starting-now.com/self-esteem.html">Self Esteem: What Is It?</a> posted at <a href="http://www.self-improvement-starting-now.com">Ivy and Amanda Preston</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Michael Miles</strong> presents <a href="http://effortlessabundance.com/?p=85">Effortless Abundance  » Blog Archive   » Steps to happiness</a> posted at <a href="http://effortlessabundance.com">Effortless Wealth and Abundance</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Arun</strong> presents <a href="http://dailyremedy.blogspot.com/2008/06/positive-spin.html">Positive Spin</a> posted at <a href="http://dailyremedy.blogspot.com/">Arun is Bringing You&#8230;Your Daily Remedy</a>, saying, &#8220;Learn to put a positive spin on life and you&#8217;ll realize how much happier it becomes!&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Joseph</strong> presents <a href="http://self-help-and-personal-development.blogspot.com/2007/04/how-to-attain-sucess.html">how to attain sucess</a> posted at <a href="http://self-help-and-personal-development.blogspot.com/index.html">Self Help and Personal Development</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Dr. Joe Capista</strong> presents <a href="http://www.thesuccesstriangle.net/2008/06/why-some-people.html">Why Some People Do Not Get What They Truly Want</a> posted at <a href="http://www.thesuccesstriangle.net/">The Success Triangle</a>, saying, &#8220;Whether we know it or not, but many of us live in prisons of our own making. This prison has no physical presence or walls but it works effectively in keeping us away from our freedom. This prison has a name. It is called comfort zone.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>David B. Bohl</strong> presents <a href="http://www.slowdownfast.com/blog/change-from-the-inside-out/">Change From the Inside Out</a> posted at <a href="http://www.slowdownfast.com/blog">Slow Down Fast Today!</a>, saying, &#8220;There comes a time in everyone’s life when they know they have to change.&#8221;</p>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Mar 2008 13:04:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Well done to us, we have coped through our grief another week and hopefully a step nearer to rebuilding our life. As always on a Sunday I post articles that will help us with that positive thinking approach

Anna Farmery presents Are you doodling or creating a masterpiece? posted at The Engaging Brand.
Fruitpunch presents What role does your attitude play in your life? posted at Fruit Punch Diary.

Jirel presents 5 ways to always stay motivated positively posted at Positive and Successful Life Style tips.

GP presents Runnin? Free posted at Innstyle Montana- Come on Inn, saying, &#8220;Sometimes I think that I am [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Well done to us, we have coped through our grief another week and hopefully a step nearer to rebuilding our life. As always on a Sunday I post articles that will help us with that positive thinking approach<br />
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<p><strong>Anna Farmery</strong> presents <a href="http://theengagingbrand.typepad.com/the_engaging_brand_/2008/03/are-you-doodlin.html">Are you doodling or creating a masterpiece?</a> posted at <a href="http://theengagingbrand.typepad.com/the_engaging_brand_/">The Engaging Brand</a>.</p>
<p><strong>Fruitpunch</strong> presents <a href="http://www.fruit-punch-diary.com/the-way-i-see-it/what-role-does-your-attitude-play-in-your-life-271/">What role does your attitude play in your life?</a> posted at <a href="http://www.fruit-punch-diary.com">Fruit Punch Diary</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Jirel</strong> presents <a href="http://positivensuccess.blogspot.com/2008/03/5-ways-to-always-stay-motivated.html">5 ways to always stay motivated positively</a> posted at <a href="http://positivensuccess.blogspot.com/">Positive and Successful Life Style tips</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>GP</strong> presents <a href="http://fvclassic.wordpress.com/2008/03/16/runnin-free/">Runnin? Free</a> posted at <a href="http://fvclassic.wordpress.com">Innstyle Montana- Come on Inn</a>, saying, &#8220;Sometimes I think that I am like the horse pictured here running with a wild streak in me, forever young and forever free&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Sarah</strong> presents <a href="http://sarahspy.blogspot.com/2008/03/keep-calm-and-carry-on.html">Keep calm and carry on</a> posted at <a href="http://sarahspy.blogspot.com/">SARAHSPY</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Gary Evans</strong> presents <a href="http://www.goodtofeelgood.com/blog/a-secret-meditation-for-law-of-attraction-followers/">A Secret Meditation for Law of Attraction Followers | Good To Feel Good</a> posted at <a href="http://www.goodtofeelgood.com/blog">Good To Feel Good</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Anmol Mehta</strong> presents <a href="http://anmolmehta.com/blog/2007/09/28/inspiring-osho-quote-on-how-to-live-courageously/">Inspiring Osho Quote on How to Live Courageously</a> posted at <a href="http://anmolmehta.com/blog">Mastery of Meditation, Enlightenment &amp; Kundalini Yoga</a>, saying, &#8220;Mystic Master Osho inspires us to live dangerously and courageously.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Fruitpunch</strong> presents <a href="http://www.fruit-punch-diary.com/the-way-i-see-it/whats-my-next-step-272/">What?s my next step?</a> posted at <a href="http://www.fruit-punch-diary.com">Fruit Punch Diary</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Roger</strong> presents <a href="http://www.happyandprosperous.com/2008/03/23/self-esteeming-creating-self-esteem/">Self-Esteeming &#8211; Creating Self-Esteem</a> posted at <a href="http://www.happyandprosperous.com">The Happy and Prosperous Blog</a>, saying, &#8220;We would all like to have high self-esteem, right ? This post explores what self-esteem means and suggests ways we can all go about raising our self-esteem to give us a better experience of life.&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Todd Goldfarb</strong> presents <a href="http://www.wethechange.com/how-to-find-your-true-purpose/">How To Find Your True Purpose</a> posted at <a href="http://www.wethechange.com">We The Change</a>, saying, &#8220;Here is a wonderful piece at the need to look internally to find true purpose.  I hope you enjoy it!&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Carter</strong> presents <a href="http://supersonicsuccess.com/blog/why-do-you-complain/">Why Do You Complain?</a> posted at <a href="http://supersonicsuccess.com/blog">SuperSonicSuccess</a>, saying, &#8220;Why Do You Complain?&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Anna Farmery</strong> presents <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/never-be-afraid-of-living/">Never Be Afraid of Living</a> posted at <a href="http://www.widowsquest.com">Widows Quest</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Elizabeth</strong> presents <a href="http://xquisitlife.blogspot.com/2008/03/never-let-go-of-your-dreams.html">Never let go of your dreams!</a> posted at <a href="http://xquisitlife.blogspot.com/">The best is yet to come!</a>, saying, &#8220;This blog discusses how to have happiness and success when going after your dreams!&#8221;</p>
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<p><strong>Raymond</strong> presents <a href="http://www.moneybluebook.com/easter-sunday-musings-about-the-rich-man-the-camel-and-the-needle/">Easter Sunday Musings About The Rich Man, The Camel, And The Needle</a> posted at <a href="http://www.moneybluebook.com">Money Blue Book</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Ella Moss</strong> presents <a href="http://zodiactimes.blogspot.com/2008/03/true-purpose-of-life.html">True Purpose of Life</a> posted at <a href="http://zodiactimes.blogspot.com/">ZODIAC TIMES</a>.</p>
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<p><strong>Abutei</strong> presents <a href="http://howtoabutei.blogspot.com/2008/03/secret-to-dreaming.html">The Secret to Dreaming</a> posted at <a href="http://howtoabutei.blogspot.com/">How to Abutei</a>, saying, &#8220;Do we live a dream or dream a life? It&#8217;s up to us!&#8221;</p>
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		<title>Family &#8211; needs constant attention</title>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 20 Jan 2007 18:10:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[When there is a death, it can bring people closer together. Mainly because they are concentrating on a shared grief, a shared emotion. They can relate to each other. That is what happened to our family when my dad died&#8230;it brought us closer, we talked more, we spent more time together. But as time has gone by I have noticed that there has been a tendency to drift again. Family is so important and it would be sad to let it drift again, so I invited my sister and mum round for a meal. It was great we talked about [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When there is a death, it can bring people closer together. Mainly because they are concentrating on a shared grief, a shared emotion. They can relate to each other. That is what happened to our family when my dad died&#8230;it brought us closer, we talked more, we spent more time together. But as time has gone by I have noticed that there has been a tendency to drift again. Family is so important and it would be sad to let it drift again, so I invited my sister and mum <img id="image291" height="96" alt="sunset.jpg" src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2006/12/sunset.thumbnail.jpg" width="128" align="right" />round for a meal. It was great we talked about dad, we talked about how his death has left a gap in all our lives and that we need to be there ffor each other.</p>
<p>My lesson here, is that grief can bring you closer which can be a positive aspect of bereavement, don&#8217;t let those old habits then start to resurface&#8230;you never know how much time you have with your family.</p>
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		<title>Update on my New Year&#8217;s Resolutions</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 15 Jan 2007 21:15:03 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I resolved to get myself back in shape - as I know I have let myself go and I am not proud of it. Well, the good news is that in my first week I lost 4.5 lbs and although I know I have a long way to go, I feel as though I am taking control of my life. I also know that he would be saying &#8220;Go on girl, you can do it&#8221; It feels as though I am doing something in his memory.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p align="left">I resolved to get <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/resolution-no-2-is-underway/">myself back in shape </a>- as I know I have let myself go and I am not proud of it. Well, the good news is that in my first week I lost 4.5 lbs and although I know I have a long way to go, I feel as though I am taking control of my<img width="128" height="85" align="right" alt="rainbowl1.jpg" id="image189" src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2006/11/rainbowl1.thumbnail.jpg" /> life. I also know that he would be saying &#8220;Go on girl, you can do it&#8221; It feels as though I am doing something in his memory.</p>
<p align="left">Remember if you have let yourself go and want to join me then <a href="http://www.middleageshed.com">visit here</a> and join me. Just because we feel lonely does not mean that we have to stop valuing ourselves. There is an audio to listen to as well so that you can follow my personal journey.<a href="http://www.middleageshed.com" /><a href="http://www.middleageshed.com"><br />
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		<title>Mum is sleeping again</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jan 2007 21:21:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My mum is staying with me at the moment and she has had difficulty sleeping through the night since my dad died. Since she has been with me, she has not got up before 9am! I asked her why she thought that was and she said &#8220;Because someone else is in the house, I feel safe&#8221;
Humans are funny creatures&#8230;we have this need to feel safe, and this shows how using our family around can really help provide that bit of comfort that we didn&#8217;t even know we wanted. Since my loss, my mum has become even more important&#8230;somehow she is [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My mum is staying with me at the moment and she has had difficulty sleeping through the night since my dad died. Since<img id="image8" height="96" alt="agst" src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2006/02/ajstjohns.thumbnail.jpg" width="64" align="right" /> she has been with me, she has not got up before 9am! I asked her why she thought that was and she said &#8220;Because someone else is in the house, I feel safe&#8221;</p>
<p>Humans are funny creatures&#8230;we have this need to feel safe, and this shows how using our family around can really help provide that bit of comfort that we didn&#8217;t even know we wanted. Since my loss, my mum has become even more important&#8230;somehow she is even more precious and yes I am scared of losing her. But one thing for sure I am going to have no regrets, and make every moment special with her.</p>
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		<title>Smiling is a wonderful tonic</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 05 Jan 2007 21:13:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have had some rough patches recently but today in my day job I talked to a comic about how to use humour in your life to raise your spirits. I don&#8217;t normally talk about my other work but if you need to start smiling again then listen to this podcast &#8211; Show 54 it will cheer you up.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have had some rough patches recently but today in my day job I talked to a comic about how to use humour in your life<img id="image93" height="96" alt="listeningtomusic.jpg" src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2006/09/listeningtomusic.thumbnail.jpg" width="64" align="right" /> to raise your spirits. I don&#8217;t normally talk about my other work but if you need to start smiling again then listen to this <a href="http://www.blubrry.com/programs/337/engaging/">podcast &#8211; Show 54</a> it will cheer you up.</p>
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		<title>Regaining my self esteem</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 27 Dec 2006 23:02:57 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anna Farmery</dc:creator>
				<category><![CDATA[Grief]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[broken-heart]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[depression]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[family]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[friends]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[losing-someone]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[losing-weight]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[self-esteem]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[widow]]></category>
		<category><![CDATA[widower]]></category>

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		<description><![CDATA[I have decided that I want to lose weight in the New Year. I have let myself go and I know that the extra weight makes me feel more depressed. I have always been fit, healthy and even prided myself on that, but losing someone who was the centre of my world, caused me to comfort eat. 
I have known for a while that I needed to stop using grief as my excuse and start getting fit again. Not because I should but because that is how I enjoy living. So I have resolved in the New Year that the fitness [...]<p>Post from: <a href="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest">Widows Quest</a></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have decided that I want to lose weight in the New Year. I have let myself go and I know that the extra weight makes me feel more depressed. I have always been fit, healthy and even prided myself on that, but losing someone who was the centre of my world, caused me to comfort eat. <img id="image137" height="96" alt="japenesegirlandbubble.jpg" src="http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/files/2006/10/japenesegirlandbubble.thumbnail.jpg" width="64" align="right" /></p>
<p>I have known for a while that I needed to stop using grief as my excuse and start getting fit again. Not because I should but because that is how I enjoy living. So I have resolved in the New Year that the fitness campaign will start and depression will no longer be used as an excuse but a motivator&#8230;anybody want to join me in my quest for regaining my self-esteem?</p>
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