Widows Quest » split personality http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest Redefine Yourself and Rediscover Life after a Loss Thu, 17 Dec 2009 18:41:32 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 en hourly 1 The Grief, Love, Anger Cycle http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/the-grief-love-anger-cycle/ http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/the-grief-love-anger-cycle/#comments Tue, 24 Mar 2009 20:34:19 +0000 Anna Farmery http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/?p=1331 Post from: Widows Quest

]]> Sometimes I feel that I have developed a split personality since my bereavement. Why? Because one moment I feel so much love and such happiness that I have felt the most incredible love and then the next moment I am angry…angry to have lost that one special person in my life.

From love to anger and back again in 60 seconds.

In one sense I love it as after the death I thought I would never be able to feel again, that my whole emotional being had shut down so that I never had to hurt again….therefore the anger and the love, show me that underneath that protective layer I can still madhair-day..

I think in learning to cope it is not about getting rid of the emotions, it is about taking out the peaks and troughs of the emotion, it is about taking the emotions from an extreme like anger to a more liveable ’sad’

Death maybe the end in one sense, but death is only the start of finding more and more about yourself

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