Widows Quest » tired http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest Redefine Yourself and Rediscover Life after a Loss Sat, 19 Dec 2009 20:03:47 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 en hourly 1 When you just don’t believe in yourself http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/when-you-just-dont-believe-in-yourself/ http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/when-you-just-dont-believe-in-yourself/#comments Wed, 18 Mar 2009 23:09:37 +0000 Anna Farmery http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/?p=1307 Post from: Widows Quest

]]> Today has been a tough day. Not because of grief but because of me taking on too much work, achieving nothing and feeling bad about it. When I say work – I don’t mean paid work, I mean tasks really. As I sit here tonight, I suddenly realised my problem is that I don’t really believe in myself. I don’t believe I can get all these things done, I don’t believe that I am as capable as I once was….is that because grief has knocked my self confidence? Is it because I am tired? Is it because…..

Hang on a minute I know why! It is because…

I am human :)

You will have days when that self belief is just not there to hold you up, but you know that is just part of being a human being…whether you have suffered bereavement or not. The difference as I see it, is that now you need to support yourself back to recovery……there is no one else there who can do it for you.

But remember this….I believe in you…and yes, when push comes to shove…Caught in a Barbed Wire Fence

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]]> http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/when-you-just-dont-believe-in-yourself/feed/ 9 Do you ever feel tired of fighting the grief? http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/do-you-ever-feel-tired-of-fighting-the-grief/ http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/do-you-ever-feel-tired-of-fighting-the-grief/#comments Thu, 13 Mar 2008 21:40:29 +0000 Anna Farmery http://www.widowsquest.com/do-you-ever-feel-tired-of-fighting-the-grief/ Post from: Widows Quest

]]> Grief can be emotionally tiring. This week I have been emotionally tired.

Tired of fighting the pain, tired of concentrating on the future, tired of “trying” to be happy. I seem to be dragging myself around the house, around work….everything seems like hard work.  beautiflmodelvswall.jpg

I  have bought myself some vitamins, gone to bed earlier, allowed myself to ease off a little at work (as much as possible!) but still the body needs to be recharged.

So I am looking for your help…how do you recharge? A holiday is out at the moment because of money…so what suggestions would you make when crying seems the only option?

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