Comments on: The Joy of Family http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/the-joy-of-family/ Redefine Yourself and Rediscover Life after a Loss Thu, 24 Dec 2009 18:49:06 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Anna Farmery http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/the-joy-of-family/comment-page-1/#comment-8721 Anna Farmery Wed, 01 Jul 2009 19:54:38 +0000 http://www.widowsquest.com/the-joy-of-family/#comment-8721 Jennifer I fully understand and even today I posted about forgiveness which is part of it for me...forgiving what has happened is such a big part of the grief process. You may find it useful to join in our online meeting that we have each month - the next one is 10th July, totally free just the community helping each other....watch out for the detail which I will post next week. Also keep sharing your thoughts, this place has helped me just get out the anger, get out the deep depression...and through the comments of others help me find a path towards a happier life...I hope we can do that for you too Anna xx Jennifer I fully understand and even today I posted about forgiveness which is part of it for me…forgiving what has happened is such a big part of the grief process. You may find it useful to join in our online meeting that we have each month – the next one is 10th July, totally free just the community helping each other….watch out for the detail which I will post next week.

Also keep sharing your thoughts, this place has helped me just get out the anger, get out the deep depression…and through the comments of others help me find a path towards a happier life…I hope we can do that for you too

Anna xx

]]> By: Jennifer http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/the-joy-of-family/comment-page-1/#comment-8480 Jennifer Tue, 30 Jun 2009 16:38:22 +0000 http://www.widowsquest.com/the-joy-of-family/#comment-8480 First I am glad that God gave me such a wonderful man to enjoy for 21 years, but i feel like my heart is breaking more and more day. sometimes i wish I could just rip the band aid on my heart open and pour alcohol on it. It would hurt like hell but then be done and i could start to heal. Instead it feels like it is being torn off ever so slowly. I was hopeful that after this first year of mourning I could start to heal, but now it seems like it will take much longer, maybe the rest of my life. Sounds so mellow dramtic! Well thanks for being a place to share my thoughts. First I am glad that God gave me such a wonderful man to enjoy for 21 years, but i feel like my heart is breaking more and more day. sometimes i wish I could just rip the band aid on my heart open and pour alcohol on it. It would hurt like hell but then be done and i could start to heal. Instead it feels like it is being torn off ever so slowly. I was hopeful that after this first year of mourning I could start to heal, but now it seems like it will take much longer, maybe the rest of my life. Sounds so mellow dramtic! Well thanks for being a place to share my thoughts.

]]> By: Jennifer http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/the-joy-of-family/comment-page-1/#comment-8477 Jennifer Tue, 30 Jun 2009 16:31:18 +0000 http://www.widowsquest.com/the-joy-of-family/#comment-8477 I agree but I still am having a hard time not wanting to through the covers over my head. I miss my husband so much and can not get use to the idea of being alone. We had looked forward to our retirement together and I think we put off ourselves for our kids and that is my one regret. I think we could have made time for one another while still being there for our kids. Now i feel like i will see him again in heaven, but that wait may seem long for me. I think my greif is getting harder and not easier with each passing day. I enojyed your entry thanks. I agree but I still am having a hard time not wanting to through the covers over my head. I miss my husband so much and can not get use to the idea of being alone. We had looked forward to our retirement together and I think we put off ourselves for our kids and that is my one regret. I think we could have made time for one another while still being there for our kids. Now i feel like i will see him again in heaven, but that wait may seem long for me. I think my greif is getting harder and not easier with each passing day. I enojyed your entry thanks.

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