Comments on: The love inside a widow or widower http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/the-love-inside-a-widow-or-widower/ Redefine Yourself and Rediscover Life after a Loss Thu, 17 Dec 2009 18:46:30 -0500 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Anna Farmery http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/the-love-inside-a-widow-or-widower/comment-page-1/#comment-3098 Anna Farmery Mon, 06 Apr 2009 16:31:53 +0000 http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/?p=1355#comment-3098 Cindy - thank you. Yes I think the true test of love is being able to see the individual and let the individual flourish at the same time as becoming one and that one grows into something that is even more special than the individuals - if that makes sense? We are hopefully going to have a telephone natter as a community this month keep watching out for the details, the more the merrier as in numbers we find strength Cindy – thank you. Yes I think the true test of love is being able to see the individual and let the individual flourish at the same time as becoming one and that one grows into something that is even more special than the individuals – if that makes sense?

We are hopefully going to have a telephone natter as a community this month keep watching out for the details, the more the merrier as in numbers we find strength

]]> By: Cindy http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/the-love-inside-a-widow-or-widower/comment-page-1/#comment-3090 Cindy Mon, 06 Apr 2009 04:38:39 +0000 http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/?p=1355#comment-3090 I just wanted to agree to the fact that my Don and I did extend each other's horizons during our marriage. We began with all of the similar traits that proved how much we had in common and then we taught each other so many other skills. those became commonly enjoyed pleasures and also life giving pleasure forms forever. With that true mate and best friend there is no end for the reaching out and blending of abilities, thoughts and joys. No wonder we miss them so terribly. I just wanted to agree to the fact that my Don and I did extend each other’s horizons during our marriage. We began with all of the similar traits that proved how much we had in common and then we taught each other so many other skills. those became commonly enjoyed pleasures and also life giving pleasure forms forever.

With that true mate and best friend there is no end for the reaching out and blending of abilities, thoughts and joys. No wonder we miss them so terribly.

]]> By: Cindy Nevins http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/the-love-inside-a-widow-or-widower/comment-page-1/#comment-3089 Cindy Nevins Mon, 06 Apr 2009 03:47:05 +0000 http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/?p=1355#comment-3089 I submitted the comments and was asked for the above address again.... I submitted the comments and was asked for the above address again….

]]> By: Anna Farmery http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/the-love-inside-a-widow-or-widower/comment-page-1/#comment-3061 Anna Farmery Sat, 04 Apr 2009 21:12:48 +0000 http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/?p=1355#comment-3061 Deb - you are so right. When we rely on someone else maybe we are hiding from ourself, and I agree with you that I think at times I put too much pressure on him too....the irony is that his death made me into the person he always thought I could be if I just gained a little bit of confidence.... Deb – you are so right. When we rely on someone else maybe we are hiding from ourself, and I agree with you that I think at times I put too much pressure on him too….the irony is that his death made me into the person he always thought I could be if I just gained a little bit of confidence….

]]> By: Deb http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/the-love-inside-a-widow-or-widower/comment-page-1/#comment-2983 Deb Tue, 31 Mar 2009 19:55:54 +0000 http://www.blisstree.com/widowsquest/?p=1355#comment-2983 Reading this Anna made me think about how he was responsible for so much of my confidence and how unfair to put that burden on someone else, makes me wonder if he realized it? I know in time I will reach beyond this cocoon of sorts I have built but right now at this time it seems a long ways off, places like this convince me to THINK positive and to try and See Happy in my future but not quite there yet... Deb Reading this Anna made me think about how he was responsible for so much of my confidence and how unfair to put that burden on someone else, makes me wonder if he realized it? I know in time I will reach beyond this cocoon of sorts I have built but right now at this time it seems a long ways off, places like this convince me to THINK positive and to try and See Happy in my future but not quite there yet…

Deb

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