The Sad Truth of Pain
June 23, 2009 by Anna Farmery
Filed under Comfort Yourself
..is that if we allow pain to change us for the worse than the loss has been in vain. Any change in your life will feel uncomfortable and none more so than grief. However, life is all about evolution – indeed in a way death is about evolution, death is required for life to continue on this wonderful planet.
We can’t stop death as much as we would all want to….I think that is one of the hardest things to come to terms with….but death is bad enough, without us allowing the loss to change us into a worse human being or a human being who doesn’t live for the moment.
Why do I write this today? Well I read a note in a card today from my loved one. He wrote
“We will never know how how much time we will have to enjoy our love, lets make sure that each day, 
each hour, each second is not wasted”
He may be gone – I can’t change that….but those words live on. I, myself, do not know how much time I have….and so I keep telling myself that as hard as it feels…lets not waste it.…lets be the person we want the world to see rather than the person grief can make us become.
