There is Hope in Grief
May 15, 2008 by Anna Farmery
Filed under Finding Love
I spoke with an old friend tonight, who lost her husband in a road accident about 5 years ago. His death was a shock and she went through a severe depression resulting in quite a dependency on anti depressants. She really could never imagine life without him and we feared a suicide bid.
She phoned to announce her engagement to a wonderful man who she met at a local grief support group. She never believed that she would be able to love again, yet she has not only found love, but a happiness that is wonderful to see.
I asked her if she could give any advice to people, this is what she said
“Grief is a tunnel, as you enter you can see only darkness. It feels lonely, cold, damp – from all the tears. But if you keep on walking, keep on moving through that tunnel, then you will see a light. Small at first but keep going, because that light will become stronger. I will never forget him, my love will always be there – loving someone else will never take that away”
That description is exactly how people who suffer from depression describe their circumstances.
Congrats to your friend.
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Beautiful story with a wonderful outcome. I lost my sister in a head on collision two years ago. I still miss her terribly, but the constant ache does go away. It does get easier with time.
HomeSpun Granny
Homespun Granny – always good to hear that the pain goes away…..or at least from my side..you learn to live with it. When I see my friends happiness it gives me hope, not only for me but all the other readers. Thanks for stopping by….do you have a tip to share on what has got you through such an awful shock?